When thou passest through the waters, I will be with thee.Isaiah 43:2 · The promise beneath this book
About the book
Some things you only learn about God in places you never wanted to be.
I did not write this book after the storm. I wrote it in the middle of it. In seasons when I had prayed, waited, and still could not see what God was doing, one question kept finding me: is God really who I have been saying He is?
Chapter One begins right there, at the moment the words we say about God stop being just words. It walks with Peter onto the sea, sits with one of the most honest prayers in Scripture, and asks a question many of us avoid: whose voice gets to define you? Because this book is about faith, but it is also about identity, and why the person you used to be is not the person you have to remain.
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101 readingsshort sections, each one a sitting
154 passagesof Scripture woven through
Contents
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Chuks Okonkwo is an author, entrepreneur, and storyteller with a passion for faith, people, and the stories that shape us.
Professionally, he works in sales as an Account Executive.
Rooted in Scripture but written from real life, his writing speaks to the person who believes in God but still has questions, and to anyone who has had to trust God without knowing how the story would unfold. He believes faith is not pretending you have no fear. It is choosing God anyway.
Based in Ottawa, Canada, Chuks serves at Lighthouse Church. Faith Beyond Waters is his first book.
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Out of everything competing for your attention today, you chose to open a book about faith. I do not take that lightly. Whoever you are, and wherever you are reading this from, I am really glad you are here.
Let me tell you why this book exists.
It did not start as a book. It started as prayers, questions, and lines I kept coming back to in seasons when I had prayed, waited, and still could not see what God was doing.
Seasons that stretched me. Seasons that asked more of me than I thought I had. Seasons I would never have chosen, and would not trade now.
Through all of it, one question kept following me.
Is God still who I say He is, even here?
This book is my honest answer.
I did not write this because I have it all figured out. I wrote it because God kept showing up while I was still figuring it out.
Here is something I want you to know before you go any further. You are not walking into this alone. I know what it feels like to stand at the edge of something, heart racing, torn between staying where it feels safe and stepping toward the voice that is calling you.
So let us not treat this like an ordinary book. Let it be a walk we take together. I will share what I learned, where I fell, and the Scriptures that kept me standing. You bring whatever you are carrying: your questions, your doubts, your hopes, even your silence. There is room for all of it here.
“Thy way is in the sea, and thy path in the great waters, and thy footsteps are not known.”
Psalm 77:19 KJV
Even when we cannot see His footsteps, God is still walking through the water. That is the promise I want to hold out to you.
I am not going to tell you what is waiting in these pages. Some things are better discovered than described. But I will tell you this much: I pray that by the last page, you see God, and maybe even yourself, a little differently.
I cannot wait for you to find out how.
Thank you for giving me your time. I promise to honour it. Now let us see what God does with it.
Turn the page. I will meet you on the water.
With gratitude,
Chuks Okonkwo
P.S. Keep this letter close. When you finish Chapter One, come back and read it again. I think it will sound different.
Next
Chapter One: What Is Faith?
You have heard the word. Now find out what it means to step out on it.
I have heard the word faith for as long as I can remember. I grew up in the Catholic Church, and later I found my way into Pentecostal churches. Two very different rooms. Two very different styles of worship. But one word kept showing up in both of them.
Faith.
I heard it in homilies and in sermons. In hymns and in worship songs. In prayers over meals and prayers over people.
“Have faith.”
“Just believe.”
“Your faith will carry you.”
And if I am honest, for a long time I thought I knew exactly what it meant.
Faith meant belief.
You believe God exists. You believe Jesus died and rose again. You believe the right things, you say yes in your heart, and that is faith.
Simple.
But at some point, I started doing something I had not done enough of before. I stopped taking the word for granted and started taking it to the Scriptures. I wanted to know, not just what I had heard faith was, but what the Bible actually says it is.
So I read. I studied. I compared verses. I looked up the original words. I asked questions I had never asked out loud.
And the deeper I went, the clearer it became.
Faith is so much more than belief.
Belief agrees that God is real. Faith puts its whole weight on Him.
That discovery is what this book is about. Not a definition to memorise, but a journey into what faith really is, and what it looks like when life puts it to the test.
So let us begin where it begins for most of us.
There is a moment that comes to almost everyone who genuinely decides to trust God.
A moment when the words stop being words.
“God is faithful.”
“God will provide.”
“God knows what He is doing.”
“I trust God.”
You have said them.
You have heard them.
You may have even encouraged someone else with them.
Then life asks you a question.
Not with a sermon.
Not with a Bible study.
With circumstances.
“Do you really believe what you have been saying?”
That question changes everything.
Because it is easy to trust God when the road is clear.
It is different when you cannot see the road at all.
It is easy to call God a provider when provision is sitting in your account.
It is different when you have a need and no obvious source.
It is easy to say God is in control when life is moving according to your plans.
It is different when your plans collapse and God does not immediately explain why.
It is easy to sing about surrender.
It is different when surrender costs you something.
I have learned that some of the deepest things God teaches us do not happen when everything is working.
They happen when something is not.
When the prayer has been prayed.
When the answer has not come.
When the door is still closed.
When the future is still blurry.
When you have done everything you know to do and the only thing left is to trust.
And perhaps that is where we need to begin.
Not with a complicated definition.
Not with religious language.
But with a word so simple that we almost overlook its weight.
Trust.
Faith is trust.
Simple.
But not easy.
Because trust becomes weighty when you have to place something precious inside it.
When Belief Becomes Personal
The New Testament uses the Greek word pistis for faith.
It carries the ideas of faith, trust, confidence, conviction, reliance, and faithfulness.
And that gives us something important.
Biblical faith is not merely agreeing that God exists.
James 2:19 reminds us that even demons believe that God exists.
So the question is not simply:
“Do you believe in God?”
The deeper question is:
“Do you trust God?”
There is a difference.
You can believe a chair will hold you and still stand beside it.
You trust it when you sit down.
You can believe a pilot knows how to fly and still refuse to board the plane.
You trust the pilot when you take your seat, buckle yourself in, and allow the aircraft to leave the ground.
At some point, belief has to become personal.
At some point, what you say you believe has to become the ground on which you stand.
Belief can live in your head. Trust eventually asks for your life.
And this is where the subject becomes uncomfortable.
Because trusting God means there will be moments when His Word has to become more authoritative to you than your circumstances.
Not because circumstances are imaginary.
They are real.
The bill is real.
The disappointment is real.
The closed door is real.
The waiting is real.
But there is another reality that is greater than what your eyes can immediately measure.
God.
You Cannot Trust Who You Refuse to Know
Why should we trust God?
Christianity does not ask you to place your confidence in an invisible stranger.
God reveals Himself.
He gives us His Word.
He reveals His character.
He shows us His ways.
Romans 10:17 says:
“So then faith cometh by hearing, and hearing by the word of God.”
Romans 10:17 KJV
There is a reason Scripture connects trust with hearing.
You cannot deeply trust someone you refuse to know.
Think about the people you trust most.
You did not trust them because someone gave you a five-minute presentation about their character.
You trusted them because you watched them.
Time revealed them.
You saw how they behaved when circumstances changed.
You saw whether their words carried weight.
You remembered how they treated you when you were vulnerable.
And Scripture does the same thing with God.
Look at Abraham.
Joseph.
Moses.
David.
Ruth.
Daniel.
Peter.
Paul.
Generation after generation, Scripture keeps revealing the character of God.
Then, if you pay attention, you begin to see Him in your own story.
Sometimes the testimony is not,
“God gave me exactly what I wanted.”
Sometimes it is,
“God kept me when I thought I would break.”
Sometimes the miracle is not that the storm disappeared.
It is that you came out of the storm still knowing His name.
There are things you only learn about God in places you never wanted to be.
And there is another thing you begin to learn there.
If you can trust God with your future, you have to learn to trust what God says about you.
Whose Voice Defines You?
This is where trust becomes deeply personal.
Because many people believe God can change their circumstances but struggle to believe what God says about their identity.
You trust God to provide money.
But you do not trust Him when He says you are valuable.
You trust Him to open a door.
But you do not trust Him when He says you are His workmanship.
You trust Him to answer a prayer.
But you still allow somebody else’s words to determine who you are.
And that is a dangerous place to live.
Because people can speak from their pain.
People can speak from their anger.
People can speak from their disappointment.
People can speak from what they think they know about you.
People can even speak from a version of you that no longer exists.
But God speaks from truth.
Not every voice that knows your name knows your identity.
I recently watched a video of a woman who was being spoken to harshly by her parents.
The words being thrown at her were painful.
Words that could easily become a prison if she accepted them.
But what caught my attention was her response.
As the negative words came, she answered them.
“I did not kill anybody.”
“I did not steal.”
“I am not useless.”
“I will make it.”
“I am not what you are calling me.”
She refused to let someone else’s words become her identity.
And that made me think about something much deeper.
What do you do when somebody speaks a lie about you?
Do you rehearse it?
Do you internalize it?
Do you carry it for ten years?
Do you allow one person’s opinion to become the narrator of your life?
Or do you return to what God has said?
Because Scripture says something powerful.
You were made in the image of God.
Genesis 1:27 says:
“So God created man in his own image.”
Genesis 1:27 KJV
Before anybody had an opinion about you, God had already placed His image upon you.
Before somebody called you useless, God called His creation good.
Before somebody told you that you would never become anything, God already had purpose in mind.
Ephesians 2:10 says:
“For we are his workmanship, created in Christ Jesus unto good works.”
Ephesians 2:10 KJV
You are God’s workmanship.
Not somebody else’s unfinished opinion.
Not the worst thing somebody has ever said about you.
Not the worst thing you have ever done.
Not your rejection.
Not your failure.
Not your previous season.
Not your greatest mistake.
God’s workmanship.
And if you are in Christ, there is another truth you cannot afford to forget.
The Person You Used to Be Is Not the Person You Have to Remain
I know what it feels like to have your past brought back to you.
There was a time when someone brought my past directly to my face.
And I remember my response.
I said, essentially:
“The person you are talking about has died.”
That person is in the burial ground.
You can look for him.
Search the earth.
Search the rooms where he used to live.
Search the memories.
Search the old mistakes.
But you will not find him here.
Because the person standing in front of you is a new creation in Christ.
2 Corinthians 5:17 says:
“Therefore if any man be in Christ, he is a new creature: old things are passed away; behold, all things are become new.”
2 Corinthians 5:17 KJV
That is not motivational language.
That is Scripture.
So let me introduce myself again.
My name is Chuks.
And I am in Christ.
Full stop.
The past can explain where you came from.
It does not have permission to decide where you are going.
That does not mean you deny what happened.
It means you refuse to make what happened your permanent identity.
There is a difference between remembering your past and living inside it.
Paul understood this.
He had persecuted the church.
He had participated in violence against believers.
His past was not imaginary.
Yet God still called him.
The same man who once persecuted the church became one of the greatest proclaimers of the gospel.
Grace did not pretend Paul’s past never happened.
Grace gave his future a new meaning.
Your past may be part of your testimony without being the title of your life.
And this is why identity belongs inside our understanding of trust.
If God says you are His, trust Him.
If God says you are His workmanship, trust Him.
If God says there is no condemnation for those who are in Christ Jesus, trust Him.
If God says you are a new creation, trust Him.
If God says you are chosen and beloved, trust Him.
Do not allow people to preach a different gospel over your life.
When the World Calls You Something Else
There will be voices.
Some will tell you that you are not enough.
Some will remind you of what you did five years ago.
Some will compare you with someone else.
Some will tell you that you are behind.
Some will tell you that you are too broken.
Some will tell you that you will never become what you hope to become.
Some voices will come from strangers.
Some will come from friends.
Some will come from family.
And sometimes, the loudest voice will be your own.
But you have to learn something:
A repeated lie does not become truth simply because you have heard it for a long time.
If God says you are His workmanship, believe Him.
If God says He has begun a good work in you, believe Him.
If God says you are a new creation, believe Him.
If God says He has plans for you, submit those plans to Him and keep walking.
Jeremiah 29:11 reminds us that God’s thoughts toward His people are thoughts of peace and a future and hope.
Ephesians 1 speaks of being blessed in Christ and chosen in Him.
1 Peter 2:9 calls God’s people:
“a chosen generation, a royal priesthood, an holy nation, a peculiar people.”
1 Peter 2:9 KJV
Look at the language.
Chosen.
Royal.
Holy.
God’s own.
That is not arrogance.
That is identity received from God.
And there is a reason this matters so much.
Because you cannot consistently walk toward what God has called you to become while constantly agreeing with voices that tell you who God says you are not.
You have to settle the question of identity.
Not because everyone will agree with you.
They will not.
But because your identity was never supposed to be a democratic decision.
You do not vote on what God has already spoken.
The Cross Settles Something
And if you ever wonder how much you are worth to God, look at the cross.
Do not rush past it.
Look at it.
Jesus Christ was beaten.
Mocked.
Rejected.
Stripped.
Nailed to a cross.
And He willingly gave Himself.
Romans 5:8 says:
“But God commendeth his love toward us, in that, while we were yet sinners, Christ died for us.”
Romans 5:8 KJV
Think about the weight of that.
He did not wait until you became perfect.
He did not wait until you had your life together.
He did not wait until your past was clean.
Christ died for you while you were still a sinner.
The cross is not merely proof that God forgives.
It is also a revelation of how far His love was willing to go.
So when somebody tells you that you are worthless, take that accusation to Calvary.
When shame tells you that you are disqualified, look at the cross.
When your past tells you that you can never change, look at the empty tomb.
When rejection tells you that nobody wants you, remember that Christ chose to give Himself for you.
And when you are tempted to build your identity around somebody else’s opinion, remember:
The price paid for you was too great to let a human opinion become your final definition.
This does not mean you ignore correction.
God can use people to correct us.
It does not mean every criticism is false.
Sometimes people see things in us that we need to confront.
Humility listens.
Repentance changes.
Wisdom learns.
But correction is different from condemnation.
A mistake is different from an identity.
Conviction is different from humiliation.
And your past is different from your future.
God can tell you, “Change,” without telling you, “You are worthless.”
That distinction matters.
The Unseen Is Not the Unreal
Hebrews 11:1 says:
“Now faith is the substance of things hoped for, the evidence of things not seen.”
Hebrews 11:1 KJV
Think about a seed.
Place it beneath the soil.
From above, nothing appears to be happening.
But beneath the surface, roots are forming.
Life is developing.
Something is moving that your eyes cannot yet confirm.
Then one morning, the ground breaks.
The evidence becomes visible.
The plant did not begin existing when you saw it.
You simply became aware of what had already been happening.
Visibility is not the same thing as existence.
That matters in our walk with God.
You may not see the answer.
You may not see the provision.
You may not see the opportunity.
You may not see the transformation.
You may not even see how God could possibly use the season you are currently in.
But your inability to see does not place a limitation on God’s ability to work.
Joseph could not see Egypt from the pit.
David could not see the throne from the cave.
Abraham could not see the ram from the mountain.
The disciples could not see resurrection from the tomb.
But God could.
What looks like an ending from the ground can look completely different from heaven.
Never confuse a hidden season with a finished story.
Then Jesus Said, “Come”
Matthew 14 gives us one of the clearest pictures of this.
The disciples are in a boat.
The wind is against them.
The waves are aggressive.
The night is dark.
Then Jesus comes walking on the water.
And Peter asks:
“Lord, if it be thou, bid me come unto thee on the water.”
Matthew 14:28 KJV
Jesus says:
“Come.”
Peter steps out.
Think about it.
The water did not become less dangerous because Peter stepped out.
The storm did not suddenly disappear.
Peter simply received a word from Jesus that was stronger than his fear of the water.
Peter did not step onto the water because the water became safe. He stepped onto it because Jesus became enough.
Then Peter looks at the wind.
He sinks.
But Jesus reaches for him.
There is another revelation here.
Peter’s mistake was not getting out of the boat.
His mistake was allowing the storm to become more real to him than the One who had called him.
How often do we do the same?
God says,
“Come.”
We look at the circumstances.
God says,
“Go.”
We look at the obstacles.
God says,
“You are Mine.”
We look at our past.
God says,
“You are My workmanship.”
We look at somebody else’s opinion.
God says,
“You are a new creation.”
And the question becomes:
Whose voice will have the final word?
When God Does Not Give You the Map
Imagine being blindfolded.
Your hands are tied.
You cannot see.
You cannot reach.
You cannot calculate.
Then a voice you trust says:
“Walk.”
One step.
“Keep going.”
Another.
Then your foot touches water.
You stop.
Your heart races.
You do not know how deep it is.
You do not know what is underneath you.
You do not know where the other side is.
You ask:
“Where are we going?”
The voice says:
“Keep walking.”
This is what trust can feel like.
Abraham experienced something like this.
Hebrews 11:8 tells us that he went out, even though he did not know where he was going.
God gave Abraham a promise without giving him an itinerary.
A destination without a map.
A calling without every detail.
A promise without a timetable.
Sometimes God hides the next chapter because He wants you close to the Author.
If you knew everything ahead, you might trust the plan more than the Planner.
So He gives you today’s grace for today’s step.
Tomorrow will have its own grace.
When the Water Does Not Move
Isaiah 43:2 says:
“When thou passest through the waters, I will be with thee.”
Isaiah 43:2 KJV
Not around them.
Not necessarily before them.
Through them.
God did not promise a life without waters.
He promised His presence in them.
Shadrach, Meshach, and Abednego entered the furnace.
Daniel entered the lions’ den.
Joseph entered prison.
David lived in caves.
Paul experienced suffering.
Jesus entered Gethsemane.
Difficulty was never automatic evidence of God’s absence.
Sometimes God delivers you from the fire.
Sometimes He meets you in it.
And sometimes you come out of the fire looking different.
That is also deliverance.
Because perhaps the miracle is not simply that God removed the situation.
Perhaps the miracle is that the situation did not remove God from you.
You can go through something without allowing it to become you.
“I Believe; Help My Unbelief.”
Mark 9 gives us one of the most honest prayers in Scripture:
“Lord, I believe; help thou mine unbelief.”
Mark 9:24 KJV
What a prayer.
No performance.
No pretending.
Just honesty.
“I believe. But I am struggling.”
And Jesus does not reject him for saying it.
That matters.
You can pray while afraid.
You can worship while confused.
You can have questions and still seek God.
You can cry and still trust.
You can be exhausted and still believe.
Fear can have a voice without having authority.
God does not need your performance.
He wants your heart.
When God Says No
Perhaps the deepest surrender comes when God says no.
Not when He says yes.
Not when the door opens.
Not when the prayer is answered exactly as you imagined.
But when the answer is different.
Jesus showed us this in Gethsemane.
“Not my will, but thine, be done.”
Luke 22:42 KJV
Look closely.
Jesus expressed what He wanted.
Then He surrendered it.
That is not weakness.
That is trust at its deepest.
Real surrender is not:
“God, I do not care what happens.”
It is:
“God, I care deeply about what happens. But I trust You more than I trust my preferred outcome.”
That is difficult.
That is holy.
And sometimes that is where trust becomes strongest.
The Water Is Not the Destination
This is where the title of this book begins to speak.
Faith Beyond Waters.
The waters represent what is immediately in front of us.
What we can see.
What we can measure.
What we can explain.
What we can panic about.
But the water is not the whole story.
Peter saw water.
Jesus saw the destination.
Abraham saw the absence of a lamb.
God saw the ram.
Joseph saw prison.
God saw Egypt.
David saw a cave.
God saw a throne.
The disciples saw a tomb.
God saw resurrection.
God is always seeing more than the moment you are standing in.
That is why 2 Corinthians 5:7 says:
“For we walk by faith, not by sight.”
2 Corinthians 5:7 KJV
Sight can tell you what is happening.
It cannot always tell you what God is doing.
Your bank account can tell you what is currently there.
It cannot tell you what God can provide.
A closed door can tell you that a door is closed.
It cannot tell you what God is doing beyond it.
A difficult season can tell you that life is difficult.
It cannot tell you how the story ends.
Sight reports the moment. God holds the meaning.
What I Have Come to Know
This is not merely theology to me.
It is something I have had to live.
There have been seasons when I had to trust God without knowing how things would unfold.
Seasons where I needed provision before I knew where provision would come from.
Seasons where I prayed and had to wait.
Seasons where I had to keep writing, keep praying, keep moving, keep believing, even when I could not see the full picture.
And I began to notice something.
God was teaching me to stop measuring His faithfulness by how quickly He changed my circumstances.
Sometimes the answer was provision.
Sometimes it was endurance.
Sometimes it was redirection.
Sometimes it was simply the strength to wake up and keep going.
And sometimes I looked back and realized that what I had called an interruption had become part of the story.
Sometimes you call it a detour while God is writing it as development.
I could not see it from where I was standing. Neither could Joseph in the pit, or David in the cave.
And perhaps that is why God asks us to trust Him.
Because He can see from places we cannot.
What Is Faith?
After the studying.
After the questions.
After the Scriptures.
After the wrestling.
After the waiting.
I keep coming back to something beautifully simple.
Faith is trust.
Trusting God when the evidence is incomplete.
Trusting His character when His timing is confusing.
Trusting His wisdom when mine wants an explanation.
Trusting His Word when circumstances are shouting something else.
Trusting His presence when I cannot feel it.
Trusting His goodness when I cannot yet see the good.
Trusting Him when the answer is yes.
Trusting Him when the answer is no.
Trusting Him when the water parts.
Trusting Him when the water remains.
And trusting Him when He tells me who I am.
Because perhaps one of the most overlooked expressions of trust is this:
Believing God about yourself.
Not your feelings.
Not your critics.
Not your past.
Not comparison.
Not shame.
God.
If He says you are His, believe Him.
If He says you are His workmanship, believe Him.
If He says you are a new creation, believe Him.
If He says there is no condemnation for those who are in Christ Jesus, believe Him.
If He says you are chosen, beloved, redeemed, and being transformed, believe Him.
You may still be growing.
You may still have things to change.
You may still have wounds to heal.
You may still have areas where God is correcting you.
But correction does not cancel identity.
God can correct your behavior without rejecting your worth.
And your past may be part of your testimony without becoming the title of your life.
Beyond the Waters
Maybe you are reading this from a boat right now.
Maybe the wind is against you.
Maybe something you prayed about has not changed.
Maybe you are standing at the edge of something God is asking you to step into.
Maybe you have been staring at the water for so long that you have forgotten to look at Jesus.
Look again.
The water is not bigger than Him.
The storm is not stronger than Him.
The unknown is not unknown to Him.
The future is not waiting for Him to discover it.
He is already there.
And you do not need tomorrow’s strength today.
You need today’s grace.
Today’s Word.
Today’s obedience.
One step.
Then another.
Then another.
Until one day you look back and realize something:
The goal was never simply to get you across the water.
The goal was to teach you that you could trust Him in it.
Because one day, the waters will be behind you.
And when you look back, you may realize the greatest miracle was not that the water disappeared.
It was that you discovered who God was while you were standing in it.
And perhaps that is what it means to go beyond the waters.
Not to live without uncertainty.
Not to live without storms.
Not to have every answer.
But to reach a place where the presence of God becomes more certain to you than the circumstances around you.
Where you can say:
“I do not know what tomorrow holds. But I know who holds tomorrow.”
And mean it.
Not because everything worked out exactly as you planned.
But because somewhere along the journey, you discovered something deeper than an answer.
You discovered God.
And once you know Him, the question changes.
You stop asking only:
“What will God do?”
And you begin asking:
“Who is God to me when I cannot see what He is doing?”
That question will take us deeper.
Because the waters are only the beginning.
Next · Chapter Two
Limiting Your Mind
The giants never called them grasshoppers. They did that to themselves. Find out what that means for you.
The idea for this book sat on my heart for a long time before I wrote a single word of it.
I would be praying, or driving, or sitting in church, and a line would come to me. Then another. I typed them into the notes on my phone and told myself, one day.
One day kept moving.
Because every time I thought about actually writing it, a quiet voice would ask me a question.
“Who are you to write a book?”
You are not a pastor. You did not go to seminary. You work in sales. Real authors are other people. People with platforms. People who have it all figured out.
Nobody had ever said those words to me out loud. But I had heard versions of them for so long, from the world and from my own head, that I had started treating them like facts.
So the notes kept piling up, and the book stayed on my phone.
Then one day, reading Scripture, something hit me. God has never once checked a résumé before He used someone. He used shepherds and fishermen, farmers and a tax collector. Not one of them was waiting until they felt qualified.
So I opened a blank page and wrote the first line.
The book you are reading right now exists because I finally stopped agreeing with a sentence.
The voice asked, “Who are you?” God had already answered, “Mine.”
That season taught me something I have never forgotten.
Most limits are not made of walls.
They are made of sentences.
Sentences you heard once and never stopped hearing.
“You are not that kind of person.”
“People like us do not do things like that.”
“Be realistic.”
“Know your place.”
Nobody built a fence around you. Somebody just handed you a sentence, and you built the fence yourself.
You built it quietly. Over years. One small agreement at a time.
And now you live inside it.
You call it being sensible. You call it being humble. You call it knowing your limits.
But some of what you call your limits are not your limits at all.
They are your borders.
And borders can be crossed.
A wall stops you from the outside.
A belief stops you from the inside, and calls it wisdom.
This chapter is about the most dangerous ceiling a person can live under.
Not the one in the room.
The one in the mind.
Because before God takes you anywhere, He usually has to take something out of you.
A small picture.
A small expectation.
A small view of God.
The Most Expensive Sentence in the Bible
Let me take you somewhere.
Israel is standing at the edge of the land God promised them. Everything God said is now within walking distance. Moses sends twelve men to look at the land before they go in.
They come back with fruit so large that it takes two men to carry a single cluster of grapes on a pole.
The land is everything God said it would be.
And then ten of the twelve men open their mouths.
“We saw the Nephilim there (the descendants of Anak come from the Nephilim). We seemed like grasshoppers in our own eyes, and we looked the same to them.”
Numbers 13:33 NIV
Read the last line again.
“We seemed like grasshoppers in our own eyes, and we looked the same to them.”
Here is something I want you to notice.
The giants never said it.
Nowhere in the story does a single giant look at Israel and call them grasshoppers. There is no conversation. No insult. No recorded opinion.
The spies decided how they looked to themselves, and then they assumed everyone else saw them the same way.
The giants never called them grasshoppers. They did that to themselves.
That is how a limited mind works.
It does not wait for the world to reject you. It rejects you in advance, on the world’s behalf.
You do not apply because you have already decided what they will say. I know, because I almost never wrote this book.
You do not speak because you have already decided they will not listen.
You do not start because you have already decided how it ends.
You become the giant in your own story, and the grasshopper too.
And that one sentence cost a whole generation everything.
Here is a detail that is easy to miss.
“(It takes eleven days to go from Horeb to Kadesh Barnea by the Mount Seir road.)”
Deuteronomy 1:2 NIV
Eleven days.
The journey to the edge of the promise was eleven days long.
It took them forty years.
Not because the road was long.
Because the mindset was.
Distance was never the problem.
Definition was.
Some of us are not far from what God promised.
We are just still walking in circles around a sentence.
God Took Him Outside
Now look at Abram.
God had promised him a son. Years passed. Nothing happened. Abram is old. Sarah is old. The promise is getting harder to believe with every birthday.
And one night God does something beautiful.
“He took him outside and said, ‘Look up at the sky and count the stars—if indeed you can count them.’ Then he said to him, ‘So shall your offspring be.’”
Genesis 15:5 NIV
“He took him outside.”
God took Abram outside.
Why?
Because you cannot see the stars from inside a tent.
Abram had been looking at the promise from under a low roof. Inside the tent, all he could see were the same walls, the same years, the same disappointment. Inside the tent, the promise looked impossible.
So God did not just repeat the promise. He changed Abram’s view.
Some promises cannot be received under a low ceiling.
So God takes you outside.
There are seasons when God does not change your situation first.
He changes your sky.
He moves you out of the small room you have been thinking in, and lets you look up at something too big to count.
And here is what makes it even more striking.
Earlier, God had said this to Abram:
“Look around from where you are, to the north and south, to the east and west. All the land that you see I will give to you and your offspring forever.”
Genesis 13:14–15 NIV
“All the land that you see.”
God connected what Abram would receive to what Abram could see.
God tied the inheritance to the eyesight.
I am not saying you can imagine your way into anything you want. Faith is not a wish list.
But I am saying this.
A person who cannot see past their current address will struggle to walk into the place God is calling them to.
You will not pursue what you cannot picture.
God Does Not Call You by Your Current Address
Look at Gideon.
When we meet him, he is not on a battlefield. He is hiding.
“His son Gideon was threshing wheat in a winepress to keep it from the Midianites.”
Judges 6:11 NIV
Threshing wheat is supposed to happen in an open place, where the wind can carry the chaff away. Gideon is doing it in a pit, out of sight, because he is afraid.
And that is exactly where the angel of the Lord finds him.
“The LORD is with you, mighty warrior.”
Judges 6:12 NIV
Mighty warrior.
To a man hiding in a hole.
Gideon’s answer tells you everything about how he saw himself.
“Pardon me, my lord, but how can I save Israel? My clan is the weakest in Manasseh, and I am the least in my family.”
Judges 6:15 NIV
Weakest clan.
Least in my family.
He gave God his background, his ranking, and his résumé of reasons.
God gave him a new name.
God does not call you by your current address.
He calls you by your destination.
Moses did the same thing.
When God called him at the burning bush, Moses asked a question that many of us are still asking:
“Who am I that I should go to Pharaoh and bring the Israelites out of Egypt?”
Exodus 3:11 NIV
And look closely at how God answered.
“I will be with you.”
Exodus 3:12 NIV
God never answered the question.
Moses asked, “Who am I?”
God said, “I will be with you.”
Moses asked who he was. God answered with who He is.
That is a revelation worth sitting with.
Your sense of inadequacy is not always solved by discovering how capable you are. Sometimes it is solved by discovering how present God is.
The question “Who am I?” becomes a lot less heavy when it is answered by “I AM.”
Jeremiah tried it too.
“Alas, Sovereign LORD, I do not know how to speak; I am too young.”
Jeremiah 1:6 NIV
And God would not let him finish the sentence.
“Do not say, ‘I am too young.’ You must go to everyone I send you to and say whatever I command you.”
Jeremiah 1:7 NIV
Do not say it.
Do not even say it.
God is not only interested in what you do. He is interested in what you say about yourself, because what you keep saying, you eventually start obeying.
Your Job Title Is Not Your Destiny
Let me talk about work for a moment, because this is where many of us live every day.
We introduce ourselves by our job titles.
“I am a cashier.”
“I am a nurse.”
“I am just an assistant.”
“I am a student.”
“I am in between jobs.”
And slowly, without noticing, the title stops being a description of what we do and becomes a definition of who we are.
Then it becomes a ceiling.
Look at David.
When the prophet Samuel came to Jesse’s house to anoint the next king of Israel, Jesse lined up his sons. Seven of them. Not one was chosen.
Samuel asked if there were any others.
“There is still the youngest,” Jesse answered. “He is tending the sheep.”
1 Samuel 16:11 NIV
Notice that.
They did not even invite him.
In his own father’s mind, David’s occupation had already disqualified him from the room. He was the shepherd. The youngest. The one with the smell of the field on him.
But God was not looking at the field.
“People look at the outward appearance, but the LORD looks at the heart.”
1 Samuel 16:7 NIV
And here is the deeper revelation.
The field was not wasted.
The same hands that fought a lion and a bear to protect sheep would one day face Goliath. The same patience that led a flock would lead a nation. The same songs he sang alone on the hills would fill the book of Psalms.
The field was not David’s limit.
It was David’s classroom.
Your current job may be the place God is training the exact muscle your future will need.
Amos understood this.
“I was neither a prophet nor the son of a prophet, but I was a shepherd, and I also took care of sycamore-fig trees. But the LORD took me from tending the flock.”
Amos 7:14–15 NIV
A shepherd. A fig farmer.
Not from a prophet’s family. No pedigree. No title.
And God took him while he was tending the flock.
God did not wait for Amos to change careers before He called him. He called him in the middle of an ordinary workday.
Peter was a fisherman. Jesus did not tell him to stop being who he was. He said:
“Follow me, and I will make you fishers of men.”
Matthew 4:19 KJV
Jesus did not erase the occupation.
He enlarged it.
Daniel was taken from his home as a young man and carried off to Babylon. A foreigner. A captive. Placed in a government that did not share his faith. Many would have assumed his career was over before it started.
Instead, he served under king after king, and rose so high that the king planned to set him over the whole kingdom. He never stopped praying three times a day, and he never let a foreign job title tell him who he was.
The kings changed.
The God on the job did not.
And now look at the most striking example of all.
When Jesus returned to His hometown and began teaching, the people were amazed. And then they said this:
“Isn’t this the carpenter? Isn’t this Mary’s son?”
Mark 6:3 NIV
They tried to limit the Son of God with a job title.
And listen to what Scripture says happened next.
“He could not do any miracles there, except lay his hands on a few sick people and heal them. He was amazed at their lack of faith.”
Mark 6:5–6 NIV
That should stop all of us.
The same Jesus who calmed storms and raised the dead did very few miracles in Nazareth. Not because His power had changed. Because their perspective had.
They had known Him too long to see Him clearly.
Familiarity put a ceiling on what faith could have opened.
If people boxed in Jesus by His occupation, do not be surprised when people try to box in you.
But do not help them.
Your job title describes what you do this season.
It was never designed to describe what God can do through you.
The Classroom You Came From
Some of us are limited by a job title.
Others are limited by a certificate. Or the lack of one.
“I did not finish school.”
“I did not go to the right university.”
“I am not smart enough for that.”
“I am too old to start learning now.”
Education matters. Learning is a gift. Growth honours God.
But listen to this.
After Peter and John healed a man and preached with boldness, the religious leaders of their day, highly educated men, looked at them and did not know what to do.
“When they saw the courage of Peter and John and realized that they were unschooled, ordinary men, they were astonished and they took note that these men had been with Jesus.”
Acts 4:13 NIV
Unschooled.
Ordinary.
And yet the experts were astonished.
What explained it?
“These men had been with Jesus.”
Their credential was proximity.
That does not mean you should stop learning. Please keep learning. Read. Study. Enroll. Grow.
But never let a missing certificate convince you that God has a missing plan.
Your background may explain your starting point.
It does not get to predict your finishing line.
Limiting the Holy One
Now we come to the deepest part of this chapter.
Because the most dangerous thing about a limited mind is not what it does to how you see yourself.
It is what it does to how you see God.
There is a verse in the Psalms that I think should make every believer pause.
“Yea, they turned back and tempted God, and limited the Holy One of Israel.”
Psalm 78:41 KJV
Limited the Holy One of Israel.
Think about that.
The God who split the sea. The God who rained bread from heaven. The God who brought water out of a rock.
And His own people limited Him.
How?
The very next verse tells us.
“They remembered not his hand, nor the day when he delivered them from the enemy.”
Psalm 78:42 KJV
They forgot.
That is how they limited Him.
Not with their hands. With their memory.
Israel did not limit God with their hands.
They limited Him with their memory.
Every time you forget what God has already done, the God in your mind gets a little smaller.
And a small view of God cannot carry a big future.
This is why remembering is a spiritual discipline. Write down what God has done. Speak it. Tell it to your children. Tell it to yourself on the days when the current problem looks bigger than your history with God.
Because your problem is not the only thing that is real.
Your testimony is real too.
Then there is this:
“God can do anything, you know—far more than you could ever imagine or guess or request in your wildest dreams!”
Ephesians 3:20 MSG
Far more than you could ever imagine.
Far more than your wildest dreams.
Do you see what Paul is saying?
The highest thing you can imagine is not God’s ceiling.
Your highest thought is His starting line.
And God Himself said:
“For my thoughts are not your thoughts, neither are your ways my ways,” declares the LORD. “As the heavens are higher than the earth, so are my ways higher than your ways and my thoughts than your thoughts.”
Isaiah 55:8–9 NIV
So when you say, “I cannot see how this could work,” you are telling the truth.
You cannot.
But that has never been the requirement.
The Oil Stopped When the Jars Ran Out
There is a story in 2 Kings that I believe captures this whole chapter.
A widow is in debt. Her husband has died. The creditors are coming to take her two sons as slaves. All she has left in her house is one small pot of oil.
The prophet Elisha gives her a strange instruction.
“Go around and ask all your neighbors for empty jars. Don’t ask for just a few.”
2 Kings 4:3 NIV
Don’t ask for just a few.
Then she was to go inside, shut the door, and start pouring.
And the oil kept flowing. Jar after jar after jar.
Until this moment:
“When all the jars were full, she said to her son, ‘Bring me another one.’ But he replied, ‘There is not a jar left.’ Then the oil stopped flowing.”
2 Kings 4:6 NIV
The oil stopped flowing.
Not because God ran out.
Because the jars did.
The oil did not stop because God ran out. It stopped because the jars did.
God filled every vessel she prepared.
The only limit on the miracle was the size of her preparation.
How many jars did you borrow?
How much room have you made for what God wants to pour?
Some of us are praying for overflow while carrying one cup.
There is another story, just a few chapters later, that hits even harder.
King Joash goes to the dying prophet Elisha. Elisha tells him to take arrows and strike the ground.
“He struck it three times and stopped. The man of God was angry with him and said, ‘You should have struck the ground five or six times; then you would have defeated Aram and completely destroyed it.’”
2 Kings 13:18–19 NIV
He struck three times and stopped.
Not because his arm was tired.
Because his expectation was.
Three strikes meant three victories. Not total victory. Three.
The king set the size of his own breakthrough by how long he was willing to keep striking.
Do not strike three times at a promise God meant for six.
Open His Eyes
There is one more story I want you to see.
The king of Syria sends an army by night to capture Elisha. In the morning, Elisha’s servant walks outside and sees the city surrounded by horses and chariots.
He panics.
“Oh no, my lord! What shall we do?”
Elisha is calm. He tells his servant not to fear, because those who are with them are more than those who are against them.
Then Elisha prays a prayer I want to pray over you.
“Open his eyes, LORD, so that he may see.” Then the LORD opened the servant’s eyes, and he looked and saw the hills full of horses and chariots of fire all around Elisha.
2 Kings 6:17 NIV
Here is the revelation.
Nothing on the hills changed.
The chariots of fire were already there.
The only thing that changed was the servant’s eyes.
He did not need a bigger army.
He needed bigger eyes.
Sometimes we pray for God to send help, when what we really need is for God to show us the help He already sent.
You are not as alone as you think.
You are not as behind as you think.
You are not as small as you think.
What I Had to Unlearn
Let me be honest with you.
This chapter is not theory to me.
My roots are in Imo State, Nigeria. Today I live and write from Ottawa, Canada. Somewhere between those two places, I had to learn that geography does not get to decide destiny.
Years ago, I stepped into the world of sales. I started at the very beginning, in a role whose whole job is to hear no and keep going. Then I led a team. Then I became an account executive. Then a senior account executive.
And here is what nobody writes on a résumé.
Every level asked me to bury a smaller version of myself first.
The thinking that got me into one room could not carry me into the next. The title only changed after the thinking did.
Every new level required a funeral for an old mindset.
And now, as you already know, I am writing a book. God is not limited by the words we reach for first. He keeps adding chapters to people who thought their story was already written.
So when I tell you not to limit your mind, I am not speaking from a stage.
I am speaking from the road.
Enlarge Your Tent
So what do we do?
How do we stop living inside a sentence someone else wrote?
God gave Israel an instruction through Isaiah that I believe is still for us today.
“Enlarge the place of your tent, stretch your tent curtains wide, do not hold back; lengthen your cords, strengthen your stakes.”
Isaiah 54:2 NIV
Enlarge.
Stretch.
Do not hold back.
Lengthen.
Strengthen.
Notice that God did not just say, “Make your tent bigger.” He said, “Strengthen your stakes.”
Because when you stretch the tent, the wind has more to push against.
A bigger vision needs deeper roots, or the first storm will fold it.
Growth will be tested. Expansion will cost you. Some people will not understand the new size of your tent. Do not let that make you shrink it again. Strengthen your stakes instead.
And the stakes are planted in one place: the mind.
“Don’t become so well-adjusted to your culture that you fit into it without even thinking. Instead, fix your attention on God. You’ll be changed from the inside out.”
Romans 12:2 MSG
Transformation is not only something God does to your circumstances.
It is something He does to your thinking.
“For as he thinketh in his heart, so is he.”
Proverbs 23:7 KJV
So here is how we begin.
Catch the sentence. Notice the words you say about yourself when nobody is listening. Write them down. Ask honestly, “Did God say this, or did someone else?”
Replace the sentence. Find what God has said instead. Read it out loud. Let His word be the loudest voice in the room.
Remember the hand. Keep a record of what God has already done. A God you remember is a God you will not limit.
Borrow more jars. Prepare for what you are praying for. Apply. Enroll. Write. Start. Make room before the oil arrives.
Strike again. Do not stop at three when God is talking about six. Keep going after the point where most people get comfortable.
Go outside. Get out of the small tent you have been thinking in. Look up. Count what you can. Then let God tell you, “So shall it be.”
Beyond the Ceiling
I want to leave you with this.
“What no eye has seen, what no ear has heard, and what no human mind has conceived”—the things God has prepared for those who love him.
1 Corinthians 2:9 NIV
No eye has seen it.
No ear has heard it.
No human mind has even conceived it.
That means the best you have ever imagined for your life is still smaller than what God has prepared.
Your career is not the ceiling.
Your education is not the ceiling.
Your background is not the ceiling.
Your past is not the ceiling.
Your current season is not the ceiling.
And the opinion people formed of you years ago is definitely not the ceiling.
Somewhere above all of it, God is still saying what He said to Abram.
Come outside.
Look up.
Count if you can.
You were never too small for the plan.
You were just looking at it from inside the tent.
So step outside.
Let God stretch your thinking until it matches His promise.
Let Him take the sentence you have been living inside of and replace it with His word.
And when the old voice whispers, “Be realistic,” answer it with the most realistic thing in the universe:
Somewhere along this journey, I realised something that changed the way I pray.
I used to think praise was what you did after God came through.
The answer arrives. The door opens. The money lands. The test result comes back clear. Then you lift your hands and say thank You.
Praise was the receipt.
But the deeper I went into Scripture, the more I saw that the people who walked closest to God did not treat praise as a receipt.
They treated it as a response.
Not a response to what God had done.
A response to who God is.
And that changes everything. Because what God does can look different from season to season. But who God is never changes.
So if praise is a response to who He is, then there is never a season where praise is out of place.
Faith believes God.
Praise says it out loud.
That is what this chapter is about.
Not praise as a song we sing at the start of a church service.
Praise as a way of living. Praise as the sound faith makes. Praise as the thing that keeps your heart pointed at God when everything else is trying to turn it away.
David put it like this:
“I will bless the LORD at all times: his praise shall continually be in my mouth.”
Psalm 34:1 KJV
At all times.
Beautiful words. Easy to put on a mug or a wall.
But do you know when David wrote them?
The heading of Psalm 34 tells us. David wrote this psalm after a moment when he was running for his life. He had fled into enemy territory, and when he was recognised, he was so afraid that he pretended to be insane. Scripture says he scratched on the doors of the gate and let spit run down his beard, so the king would think he was mad and send him away.
That was the background of “at all times.”
Not a palace.
Not a victory.
One of the most humiliating days of his life.
David did not write “at all times” on his best day.
He wrote it on one of his worst.
So when Scripture tells us to praise at all times, it is not speaking from a comfortable distance. It is speaking from the floor. From the place where you have nothing left but your breath and your God.
And that is exactly where my own lesson began.
The Email
There was a season when I was looking for a job.
And I mean really looking. I was doing everything. Applications. Preparation. Research. Follow-ups. Every door I could knock on, I knocked on.
Then one opportunity started to move.
I passed stage one.
Then stage two.
Then stage three.
I remember that company so well. I remember thinking I had done well. I remember allowing myself to picture it. The role. The start date. The relief.
And then the email came.
You probably know the kind.
“Unfortunately, we have decided to move forward with other applicants.”
I read it, and something in me dropped.
I felt bad. Then I felt sad. And if I am being completely honest with you, at some point I felt angry. I had done everything I knew to do. I had prayed. I had prepared. I had shown up. And it still did not happen.
Then my mom said something to me that I have never forgotten.
“Do you know that you are supposed to be giving God thanks?”
And then she said the line that went straight through me.
“Do you know that God is looking at your first reaction to this situation? Your first reaction should be praise.”
My mom
That hit me so hard.
Because she was right.
My first reaction had been disappointment. My second reaction was frustration. Praise was not even on the list.
I had been praising God for the doors I hoped would open.
I had not learned to praise Him at the doors that closed.
God was not only watching the outcome. He was watching my first reaction.
I did not get that job.
But I got something I needed more.
A question I now ask myself in every hard moment.
What is my first reaction going to be?
Not long after that, I got the chance to test it.
I opened my laptop one morning to an email from a different company. Another “unfortunately.” And I felt that same old sinking feeling start to rise in my chest.
But this time, before I let myself spiral, I closed the laptop. I took a breath. And I said out loud, alone in my apartment, “Lord, thank You. You are still good, and You still know where I am going.”
I would love to tell you the disappointment disappeared instantly.
It did not.
But something was different. The disappointment was still in the car.
It just was not driving anymore.
Praise was.
Judah Goes First
It turns out my mom was preaching something that runs through the whole Bible.
Let me show you.
In Genesis, there is a woman named Leah. She is married to Jacob, but Jacob loves her sister Rachel. Leah knows it. Everybody knows it.
So Leah has children, and with every child, you can hear her heart.
Her first son, she names Reuben, and says:
“It is because the LORD has seen my misery. Surely my husband will love me now.”
Genesis 29:32 NIV
Her second son, she names Simeon, because the Lord heard that she was not loved.
Her third son, Levi, because now, surely, her husband will be joined to her.
Three children.
Three names that all say the same thing.
“Maybe now he will love me.”
Then comes her fourth son.
“She conceived again, and when she gave birth to a son she said, ‘This time I will praise the LORD.’ So she named him Judah.”
Genesis 29:35 NIV
This time I will praise the Lord.
This time.
Something shifted in Leah. Her situation had not changed. Jacob had not suddenly fallen in love with her. But she stopped naming her children after her pain, and she named one after her praise.
Judah means praise.
And here is the part that I want you to see.
Out of all of Jacob’s sons, it was through Judah that the line of kings would come. King David came from Judah. And Jesus Christ Himself is called “the Lion of the tribe of Juda.”
The Saviour of the world came through the child born on the day a rejected woman chose praise.
Leah did not know what her praise would carry.
Neither do you.
But it gets even better.
After the death of Joshua, Israel asked God a question:
“Who of us is to go up first to fight against the Canaanites?” The LORD answered, “Judah shall go up.”
Judges 1:1–2 NIV
Who goes first?
Judah.
Praise.
My mom did not know she was quoting the book of Judges. But she was. Praise goes first.
Before the strategy. Before the explanation. Before the next application. Before the answer.
Praise goes first.
And then there is King Jehoshaphat.
Three armies were marching against him. He was outnumbered and afraid. So he prayed, and God told him the battle was not his but God’s. Then Jehoshaphat did something no military leader would ever do.
“Jehoshaphat appointed men to sing to the LORD and to praise him for the splendor of his holiness as they went out at the head of the army, saying: ‘Give thanks to the LORD, for his love endures forever.’ As they began to sing and praise, the LORD set ambushes against the men of Ammon and Moab and Mount Seir who were invading Judah, and they were defeated.”
2 Chronicles 20:21–22 NIV
He put the choir in front of the soldiers.
And look at the timing.
“As they began to sing.”
Not when they finished. Not after the third song. Not once they felt better.
As they began.
Heaven did not wait for the end of the song. It moved at the first note.
Praise is not the celebration after the battle.
Sometimes praise is the battle plan.
Look Who You Are Praising
Let me tell you why praise makes sense even when life does not.
Because of who we are praising.
Sometimes we forget who God really is. We shrink Him down to the size of our problem. We talk about Him as if He is just slightly bigger than our bills, or just slightly stronger than our fear.
But think about it.
Our Saviour walks on water.
The same water that terrified the disciples was a floor under His feet. The storm that made grown fishermen scream was something He could speak to and silence.
He is not just bigger than your problem.
He is standing on it.
Scripture says:
“Therefore God exalted him to the highest place and gave him the name that is above every name, that at the name of Jesus every knee should bow, in heaven and on earth and under the earth.”
Philippians 2:9–10 NIV
A name above every name.
Above the name of your diagnosis.
Above the name of the company that said no.
Above the name of the debt.
Above the name of the person who walked away.
Every name you are afraid of has to bow to His.
And Jesus Himself said:
“All authority in heaven and on earth has been given to me.”
Matthew 28:18 NIV
All.
Not most. Not some. All.
That means God can change your situation in one night.
“Weeping may endure for a night, but joy cometh in the morning.”
Psalm 30:5 KJV
In the book of Esther, a king could not sleep one night, asked for the records to be read to him, and discovered that a man named Mordecai had once saved his life and never been rewarded. By the next day, Mordecai was being led through the city in royal robes. One night can undo years.
But here is what moves me even more than His power.
I once heard a pastor say something that I have never been able to shake. He said, think about who we are talking about. The Almighty God. The One who holds everything together. And yet, in our hardest moments, He still makes time to come. He comes down to our level. He sits with us in it, just to comfort us.
That is our God.
Scripture says it too:
“For this is what the high and exalted One says—he who lives forever, whose name is holy: ‘I live in a high and holy place, but also with the one who is contrite and lowly in spirit, to revive the spirit of the lowly and to revive the heart of the contrite.’”
Isaiah 57:15 NIV
Read that slowly.
The high and exalted One, who lives forever, has two addresses.
One is the high and holy place.
The other is next to a broken heart.
God has two addresses.
Heaven, and wherever someone is hurting.
“The LORD is close to the brokenhearted and saves those who are crushed in spirit.”
Psalm 34:18 NIV
That verse is in the same psalm as “I will bless the LORD at all times.” Of course it is. David could praise at his lowest because he had discovered that his lowest was exactly where God came closest.
Jesus is not a Saviour who watches from a distance.
“For we do not have a high priest who is unable to empathize with our weaknesses.”
Hebrews 4:15 NIV
He is able to empathize.
He feels it with you.
At the tomb of His friend Lazarus, knowing full well that He was about to raise him from the dead, Jesus still stopped and wept.
Power that could raise the dead.
Tenderness that would not rush your tears.
That is who we are praising.
Praise Is Faith Out Loud
Now let me show you how deeply praise and faith are connected.
When Scripture describes Abraham waiting for the son God had promised, it says this:
“Yet he did not waver through unbelief regarding the promise of God, but was strengthened in his faith and gave glory to God.”
Romans 4:20 NIV
Strengthened in his faith, and gave glory to God.
Those two things are side by side for a reason.
Abraham did not give glory to God after Isaac was born. He gave glory while he was still waiting. While his body was old. While Sarah was still barren. While nothing in the natural had changed.
And the giving of glory was part of what kept his faith strong.
Here is the revelation.
Praise is how faith says thank You before the answer arrives.
When you praise God in the waiting, you are making a declaration. You are saying, “I do not have to see it to know who You are.”
Worry rehearses the problem.
Praise rehearses the promise.
And whichever one you rehearse the most is the one that grows.
The prophet Habakkuk understood this.
“Though the fig tree does not bud and there are no grapes on the vines, though the olive crop fails and the fields produce no food, though there are no sheep in the pen and no cattle in the stalls, yet I will rejoice in the LORD, I will be joyful in God my Savior.”
Habakkuk 3:17–18 NIV
Look at the list.
No figs. No grapes. No olives. No harvest. No sheep. No cattle.
In his world, that was the complete collapse of the economy. No income. No savings. No backup plan.
And then one word changes the whole passage.
Yet.
Yet is the most powerful word a believer can say.
Yet means the situation has spoken, but it does not get the last word.
Yet means I see the empty field, and I am still choosing joy.
Yet means my praise is not attached to my circumstances. It is attached to my God.
Midnight in Philippi
Paul and Silas had been beaten with rods, thrown into the inner prison, and had their feet locked in stocks.
Their backs were bleeding. Their legs were chained. It was the middle of the night.
And this is what they did:
“About midnight Paul and Silas were praying and singing hymns to God, and the other prisoners were listening to them. Suddenly there was such a violent earthquake that the foundations of the prison were shaken. At once all the prison doors flew open, and everyone’s chains came loose.”
Acts 16:25–26 NIV
Notice two things.
First, “the other prisoners were listening to them.”
Your praise in a hard season is never private. Someone is listening. Someone in the cell next to you, chained by their own situation, is hearing you sing and wondering what kind of God is worth singing to in a place like this.
Your praise might be the only sermon they ever hear.
Second, “everyone’s chains came loose.”
Not just Paul’s. Not just Silas’s.
Everyone’s.
Your praise in prison can unlock someone else’s chains.
When you choose to praise in the middle of your midnight, you never know whose freedom is attached to your song.
He Lives in It
There is a verse that I believe explains why praise is so powerful.
“But thou art holy, O thou that inhabitest the praises of Israel.”
Psalm 22:3 KJV
God inhabits praise.
He makes His home in it.
When we praise, we are not just sending words up. We are making room for God to come in.
But here is what most people miss.
Do you know how Psalm 22 begins?
“My God, my God, why have you forsaken me?”
These are the same words Jesus cried from the cross.
The verse about God living in our praise sits inside the psalm of feeling abandoned.
David felt forsaken in verse one, and by verse three he was declaring that God is holy and lives in the praises of His people.
He did not wait to feel better.
He praised his way back to the truth.
Praise does not deny the pain.
It just refuses to let pain have the microphone.
And then there is Job.
In a single day, Job lost his wealth, his servants, and all ten of his children. Messenger after messenger came with worse news than the last.
And Scripture records his first reaction.
“At this, Job got up and tore his robe and shaved his head. Then he fell to the ground in worship and said: ‘Naked I came from my mother’s womb, and naked I will depart. The LORD gave and the LORD has taken away; may the name of the LORD be praised.’”
Job 1:20–21 NIV
Look at the order.
He tore his robe. He grieved. He was human. He felt it.
And then he fell to the ground in worship.
Job’s grief was real. But it was not his final word. His first reaction was to bring his pain to the feet of God.
That is what my mom was talking about.
Praise does not mean you never feel the loss.
It means that when the loss comes, you know which direction to fall.
What Praise Does to You
Praise changes things around us.
But it also changes things in us.
Isaiah describes it like clothing:
“A crown of beauty instead of ashes, the oil of joy instead of mourning, and a garment of praise instead of a spirit of despair.”
Isaiah 61:3 NIV
A garment.
You do not wait to feel dressed before you put on clothes. You put them on, and then you are dressed.
Praise works the same way. You do not always wait until you feel like praising. Sometimes you put it on, and the heaviness begins to lift.
Scripture also says:
“A cheerful heart is good medicine.”
Proverbs 17:22 NIV
Long before anyone studied it, the Bible was saying that what happens in your heart affects your whole being.
And today, many researchers who study gratitude have found it linked to things like lower stress, better sleep, and a more hopeful outlook. That should not surprise us. God designed us. Of course the posture He invites us into is good for us.
Think about it practically.
It is almost impossible to panic and praise at full volume at the same time. One of them has to give way.
When you praise, you lift your eyes from the problem to the One who is bigger than it. Your mind stops circling the worst case. Your breathing slows. Your heart remembers.
David did this on purpose.
“Why are you down in the dumps, dear soul? Why are you crying the blues? Fix my eyes on God— soon I’ll be praising again. He puts a smile on my face. He’s my God.”
Psalm 42:5 MSG
Notice what David is doing.
He is talking to himself.
Instead of listening to his soul, he is speaking to it.
Stop listening to your soul and start preaching to it.
Your feelings will always have an opinion.
Praise reminds them who is in charge.
Praise on the Mountaintop
I do not want you to think praise is only for the hard days.
This book is not about surviving life. It is about walking with God through all of it. And that includes the good days.
The promotions. The acceptance letters. The healing. The wedding. The new baby. The breakthrough you prayed about for years.
Here is something interesting. Scripture actually warns us about the good seasons.
“When you have eaten and are satisfied, praise the LORD your God for the good land he has given you. Be careful that you do not forget the LORD your God.”
Deuteronomy 8:10–11 NIV
Be careful when you are satisfied.
Because the danger of the good season is not that we curse God.
It is that we forget Him.
Hard times push us toward God. Good times can quietly drift us away from Him.
Praise on the mountaintop keeps you humble. It reminds you that the view is a gift and not an achievement.
Remember the ten lepers?
Jesus healed all ten. All ten were cleansed. All ten walked away with their skin made new.
But only one came back.
He came back shouting praise and fell at Jesus’ feet giving thanks. And Jesus said something to him that He did not say to the other nine:
“Arise, go thy way: thy faith hath made thee whole.”
Luke 17:19 KJV
Nine were cleansed.
One was made whole.
Nine got healed. The one who praised got whole.
The difference was not the miracle.
The difference was the response.
Praise on your good days does not just say thank You. It invites God deeper into the blessing, until the blessing becomes something more than a gift. It becomes a relationship.
In Everything
So how do we live this out?
Paul gives us a simple instruction:
“Give thanks in all circumstances; for this is God’s will for you in Christ Jesus.”
1 Thessalonians 5:18 NIV
Read it carefully.
It does not say for all circumstances.
It says in all circumstances.
You do not have to thank God for the rejection email. You do not have to pretend the diagnosis is good news or the betrayal did not hurt.
But in all circumstances, in the middle of it, you can still give thanks. Because God is still God. Because He is still good. Because He is still with you.
And sometimes, that kind of praise will cost you something.
“Through Jesus, therefore, let us continually offer to God a sacrifice of praise—the fruit of lips that openly profess his name.”
Hebrews 13:15 NIV
A sacrifice of praise.
A sacrifice is something that costs you.
When you praise God with tears still on your face, that is a sacrifice. When you thank Him before you understand, that is a sacrifice. When your feelings say no and your mouth still says, “You are good,” that is a sacrifice.
And heaven treasures it.
So here is what I am learning to do. And I invite you to do it with me.
Watch your first reaction. When the news comes, good or bad, let your first words be toward God. Even if it is just, “You are still good.”
Name one thing. In the hardest moment, find one thing to thank Him for. Breath. A friend. Yesterday’s grace. Start small. Praise grows.
Speak to your soul. Do not just feel your way through the day. Tell your soul what God has said.
Remember out loud. Say what God has already done. Your history with Him is evidence for your future with Him.
Go back like the one leper. When the blessing comes, return to the One who gave it before you run off to enjoy it.
Sing at midnight. Do not wait for morning to praise. Someone in the next cell is listening.
Let Everything That Has Breath
The very last verse of the book of Psalms says this:
“Let everything that has breath praise the LORD. Praise the LORD.”
Psalm 150:6 NIV
Here is the qualification for praise.
Not a job.
Not a breakthrough.
Not a perfect week.
Breath.
If you have breath, you qualify.
If you are reading this, you qualify.
So whatever season you are in right now, whether you are on the mountaintop or at midnight, whether you just got the yes or just read the “unfortunately,” here is my encouragement to you.
Let your first reaction be praise.
Not because everything is good.
Because He is.
Not because you can see the way.
Because you know the One who walks on water.
Not because the night is over.
Because joy is coming in the morning.
When praise goes first, faith is never far behind.
The first question God ever asked a human being was not, “What did you do?”
It was not, “Why did you disobey Me?”
It was not, “How could you?”
It was three words.
“But the LORD God called to the man, ‘Where are you?’”
Genesis 3:9 NIV
Think about that.
God knows everything. He knew exactly where Adam was standing. He knew which tree he was hiding behind. He knew what had happened and why.
So why ask?
Because God was not asking for information.
He was asking for Adam.
God did not ask, “Where are you?” to find a location. He asked it to find a relationship.
That question tells you more about the heart of God than almost anything else in the Bible.
The first thing God did after humanity broke His heart was not to walk away.
It was to come looking.
And He is still asking that question today. Not in a garden this time, but in your car on the way to work. In your quiet bedroom at night. In the middle of your busy week, when your calendar is full and your heart is somewhere far away.
Where are you?
This chapter is about the God who keeps asking.
Before There Was a Law, There Was a Walk
Long before the Ten Commandments.
Long before the temple, the sacrifices, the priests, the rules.
There was a walk.
“Then the man and his wife heard the sound of the LORD God as he was walking in the garden in the cool of the day, and they hid from the LORD God among the trees of the garden.”
Genesis 3:8 NIV
The LORD God was walking in the garden in the cool of the day.
That one line paints a picture of what life with God was meant to be. Not a meeting. Not a ritual. A walk. An evening stroll. Two companions in the cool of the day.
Adam and Eve recognised the sound of His footsteps. That means they had heard them before.
This was not the first walk.
It was a habit.
Before there was a law, there was a walk.
And if you go back even further, you find something remarkable about who God is.
“Then God said, ‘Let us make mankind in our image, in our likeness.’”
Genesis 1:26 NIV
Us. Our.
Before there was a single human being, God was already in relationship. Father, Son and Holy Spirit. Perfect love, perfect fellowship, perfect unity.
God did not create you because He was lonely.
He created you because He is love, and love makes room for more.
You were not designed to simply believe in God from a distance.
You were designed to walk with Him.
The God Who Wants to Be Known
There is something about God that many people never realise.
He does not just want to be obeyed.
He wants to be known.
Jesus said something that changes how we understand the whole Christian life:
“Now this is eternal life: that they know you, the only true God, and Jesus Christ, whom you have sent.”
John 17:3 NIV
Read how Jesus defines eternal life.
Not just living forever.
Not just going to heaven when you die.
Knowing God.
Eternal life is not only a destination. It is a relationship that starts now.
And then Jesus said this to His disciples:
“I no longer call you servants, because a servant does not know his master’s business. Instead, I have called you friends, for everything that I learned from my Father I have made known to you.”
John 15:15 NIV
Friends.
The Creator of the universe uses the word friends.
A servant knows what to do. A friend knows who you are. A servant waits for instructions. A friend is invited into your heart.
God is not looking for employees.
He is looking for friends.
Moses knew this kind of friendship.
“The LORD would speak to Moses face to face, as one speaks to a friend.”
Exodus 33:11 NIV
Face to face.
As one speaks to a friend.
That is what God wants with you.
Not a God you visit once a week and forget the rest of the time. Not a God you only call when you need something. A God you talk to the way you talk to the people you love most.
And He is not waiting for you to find the courage to go looking for Him.
He is already at the door.
“Here I am! I stand at the door and knock. If anyone hears my voice and opens the door, I will come in and eat with that person, and they with me.”
Revelation 3:20 NIV
Notice what He wants to do when He comes in.
Eat with you.
In the culture of the Bible, sharing a meal was one of the most intimate things you could do. It meant friendship. Acceptance. Belonging.
Jesus is not knocking to inspect your house.
He is knocking to sit at your table.
When Life Gets Good
Now let me share something I had to learn for myself.
Life can be hard. We all know that. But life can also be good. Really good. And at some point, I came to understand something about the good seasons that I had never noticed before.
When life is good, we tend to forget the One who makes it good.
Not on purpose.
Nobody wakes up and says, “Today I will forget God.”
It happens quietly.
The prayers get shorter. The Bible stays closed a little longer. The gratitude fades into routine. We are busy, we are blessed, things are working, and slowly, without even noticing, God moves from the centre of our lives to the edges.
We go about our life, and we forget Him.
I know, because I have done it.
I remember a season when everything seemed to be working. Work was going well. The bills were paid on time. My weekends were full of friends, plans and good food. If you had asked me, I would have told you I was blessed, and I would have meant it.
Then one Sunday at Lighthouse Church, in the middle of worship, the music dropped and the room went quiet. And in that quiet, a simple question rose up in my heart.
When was the last time you talked to Me, and not just about what you need?
I could not remember.
I had been thanking God in passing. A quick “thank You, Lord” before a meal. A short prayer on the way to a meeting. But I had not really sat with Him in weeks. I had been enjoying the blessing and slowly drifting from the One who blessed me.
Nothing was wrong in my life.
That was exactly the problem.
Nothing was wrong, so nothing was pulling me back to Him.
That afternoon, I went home, put my phone face down on the table, opened my Bible, and just talked to Him. Not with a list. Not with requests. The way you talk to a friend you have been neglecting and have really missed.
It felt like coming home.
God saw this happen to His people again and again.
“When I fed them, they were satisfied; when they were satisfied, they became proud; then they forgot me.”
Hosea 13:6 NIV
Look at the progression.
Fed.
Satisfied.
Proud.
Forgot.
That is the slow drift of the human heart. It does not happen in one dramatic moment. It happens one comfortable step at a time.
Hard times can push you away from God.
Good times can drift you away from Him.
And here is what makes this so important.
The danger of the drift is not that God stops loving you.
It is that you stop knowing Him.
You can be surrounded by everything God has given you and still be far from God Himself.
When God Says Not Yet
Which brings me to something that took me a long time to understand.
I have realised that sometimes God removes certain things from our lives, or does not allow certain things to happen, and it is not because He does not want us to have them.
It is not because He is holding out on us.
It is not because He is unkind.
Sometimes it is because He knows our hearts better than we do.
He knows that if He gives us that thing right now, we will forget about Him. Or that we will start to worship the gift instead of the Giver. That the thing we are praying for could quietly take His place.
And God loves us too much to let anything take His place.
There is a verse in the Psalms that shook me when I first understood it. It is about Israel in the wilderness, demanding what they wanted.
“And he gave them their request; but sent leanness into their soul.”
Psalm 106:15 KJV
He gave them what they asked for.
And their souls became thin.
Full hands. Empty heart.
Sometimes the most dangerous answer to prayer is getting what you want without getting more of God.
Israel did it again years later. They looked at the nations around them and demanded a king.
“Now appoint a king to lead us, such as all the other nations have.”
1 Samuel 8:5 NIV
And God told Samuel the truth about what was really happening.
“It is not you they have rejected, but they have rejected me as their king.”
1 Samuel 8:7 NIV
They thought they were asking for a king.
They were really asking to replace God.
So when God says no, or not yet, it is worth asking a different question. Not, “Why won’t God give me this?” but, “What would this become if He did?”
Look at Abraham.
God had promised him a son. Abraham waited twenty five years. And then Isaac was born, the long awaited miracle, the son of the promise.
And then God asked for him back.
“Take your son, your only son, whom you love—Isaac—and go to the region of Moriah. Sacrifice him there as a burnt offering.”
Genesis 22:2 NIV
It is one of the hardest passages in the whole Bible.
But look at how it ends.
Abraham obeyed, all the way up the mountain, all the way to the altar. And at the last moment, God stopped him.
“Now I know that you fear God, because you have not withheld from me your son, your only son.”
Genesis 22:12 NIV
God never wanted to take Isaac.
He wanted to make sure Isaac had not taken Abraham.
God did not want Isaac. He wanted to make sure Isaac did not have Abraham.
Abraham walked down that mountain with his son beside him. He did not lose the gift. He simply settled forever that the Giver came first.
Then there is the rich young man who came running to Jesus.
“Jesus looked at him and loved him. ‘One thing you lack,’ he said. ‘Go, sell everything you have and give to the poor, and you will have treasure in heaven. Then come, follow me.’”
Mark 10:21 NIV
Do not miss the first line.
“Jesus looked at him and loved him.”
Before Jesus asked him to let go of anything, He loved him. The request did not come from a God who wanted to take. It came from a God who wanted him.
But the man’s possessions had become his god. And he walked away sad.
When God asks you to loosen your grip, it is never because He wants less for you.
It is because He wants you.
Moses Said No to the Promised Land
This next story is one that I believe very few people have truly noticed.
After Israel made the golden calf, God told Moses something shocking. He said He would still give them the land He had promised. The land flowing with milk and honey. Everything they had been dreaming of.
But there was one condition.
“Go up to the land flowing with milk and honey. But I will not go with you.”
Exodus 33:3 NIV
Read that again.
You can have the promise.
You just will not have Me.
Many people would have taken that deal. The land was the dream. The land was the whole point of leaving Egypt.
But Moses said no.
“If your Presence does not go with us, do not send us up from here.”
Exodus 33:15 NIV
Moses was offered the Promised Land without the One who promised it.
And he refused.
Moses would rather stay in the wilderness with God than live in the Promised Land without Him.
That is what a real relationship with God looks like.
The gift is good.
But it is not the goal.
The goal is Him.
And God’s answer to Moses is beautiful.
“I will do the very thing you have asked, because I am pleased with you and I know you by name.”
Exodus 33:17 NIV
I know you by name.
That is not the language of a ruler to a subject.
It is the language of a friend.
When Moses chose God over the gift, he ended up with both.
Busy for Him, or With Him?
One of the easiest ways to lose a relationship with God is to replace it with activity for God.
Jesus visited the home of two sisters, Martha and Mary.
“She had a sister called Mary, who sat at the Lord’s feet listening to what he said. But Martha was distracted by all the preparations that had to be made.”
Luke 10:39–40 NIV
Martha was not doing anything wrong. She was serving. She was hosting. She was working hard for Jesus.
But she was so busy for Him that she missed being with Him.
“‘Martha, Martha,’ the Lord answered, ‘you are worried and upset about many things, but few things are needed—or indeed only one. Mary has chosen what is better, and it will not be taken away from her.’”
Luke 10:41–42 NIV
Only one thing is needed.
Not more serving.
More sitting.
Martha was busy for Jesus.
Mary was with Him.
You can be in church every Sunday, serve on every team, and still be distant from God. You can know a lot about Him and not really know Him.
Jesus said Mary chose the better thing, and that it would never be taken from her.
Your achievements can be taken. Your position can be taken. Your possessions can be taken.
But time spent at His feet becomes something no one can ever take away.
Two Sons, One Father
You probably know the story of the prodigal son.
The younger son demanded his inheritance, left home, wasted everything, and came back broken and ashamed.
And while he was still rehearsing his apology, this happened:
“But while he was still a long way off, his father saw him and was filled with compassion for him; he ran to his son, threw his arms around him and kissed him.”
Luke 15:20 NIV
The father saw him while he was still a long way off.
Which means the father had been watching the road.
Every day.
That is the heart of God.
But there is a second son in this story, and I think he might be the most important one.
The older brother never left. He stayed home. He worked hard. He followed every rule. And when the celebration started for his younger brother, he refused to go in.
“Look! All these years I’ve been slaving for you and never disobeyed your orders.”
Luke 15:29 NIV
Slaving.
That word tells you everything. He lived in his father’s house like an employee, not a son.
And listen to the father’s answer.
“‘My son,’ the father said, ‘you are always with me, and everything I have is yours.’”
Luke 15:31 NIV
Everything I have is yours.
He had access to everything the whole time. He just never enjoyed it, because he never knew his father’s heart.
One son left the house.
The other never left, and still never came home.
You can be near God and still miss His heart.
The father in this story wanted the same thing from both sons.
Not their work.
Them.
Faith Grows Where Relationship Lives
Now let me connect all of this to the heart of this book.
Faith.
Here is how the Bible describes the kind of faith that pleases God:
“And without faith it is impossible to please God, because anyone who comes to him must believe that he exists and that he rewards those who earnestly seek him.”
Hebrews 11:6 NIV
Look at the words in that verse.
Comes to him.
Seek him.
Faith in the Bible is not just believing a set of facts about God. It is coming to Him. Seeking Him. Moving toward Him.
Faith is relational.
That is why the closer you walk with God, the easier it becomes to stand on His word when life gets difficult. You are not trusting a stranger. You are trusting Someone you have walked with.
Faith is not built in a crisis.
It is revealed in one.
And it is built in the ordinary days. In the conversations. In the walks. In the quiet moments where nobody else is watching.
God makes a promise about this:
“You will seek me and find me when you seek me with all your heart.”
Jeremiah 29:13 NIV
Not half your heart.
Not the leftover part of your heart after work, after scrolling, after everything else.
All of it.
And when you do, Jesus extends one of the most beautiful invitations in all of Scripture:
“Are you tired? Worn out? Burned out on religion? Come to me. Get away with me and you’ll recover your life. I’ll show you how to take a real rest. Walk with me and work with me—watch how I do it. Learn the unforced rhythms of grace.”
Matthew 11:28–29 MSG
Burned out on religion.
Some of us are not tired of God.
We are tired of trying to earn Him.
But Jesus is not offering you a religion. He is offering you a walk. Walk with Me. Work with Me. Watch how I do it.
That is a relationship.
First Things First
So here is what I want you to take from this chapter.
Put God first.
Not first on a list that you check off in the morning and forget by lunch.
First in your heart.
First in your decisions.
First in your attention.
First in your love.
Jesus said:
“For the pagans run after all these things, and your heavenly Father knows that you need them. But seek first his kingdom and his righteousness, and all these things will be given to you as well.”
Matthew 6:32–33 NIV
Your Father knows what you need.
He is not unaware of the job you are praying for. The healing. The relationship. The breakthrough. The door.
He knows.
And His instruction is simple.
Seek Him first.
And all these things will be given to you as well.
Notice the order. It does not say, “Seek these things, and God as well.” It says, “Seek God, and these things as well.”
When God is first, everything else finds its place.
When anything else is first, even good things become heavy.
Seek the Giver, and the gifts will know where to find you.
David said it like this:
“Take delight in the LORD, and he will give you the desires of your heart.”
Psalm 37:4 NIV
And something beautiful happens when you delight in Him. Your desires start to change. You begin to want what He wants. And what He wants for you is always better than what you would have asked for on your own.
David had one priority above all others:
“One thing I ask from the LORD, this only do I seek: that I may dwell in the house of the LORD all the days of my life, to gaze on the beauty of the LORD and to seek him in his temple.”
Psalm 27:4 NIV
One thing.
Not a palace. Not a victory. Not a bigger kingdom.
Him.
So what does putting God first look like in real life? Here are a few places to start.
Talk to Him before you talk to anyone else. Before you check your phone in the morning, say good morning to the One who gave you the morning.
Bring Him the small things. Do not save prayer for emergencies. Friends talk about everyday life.
Listen, not just ask. Sit at His feet like Mary. Open His word and let Him speak first.
Hold your blessings loosely. Thank Him for every gift, and remind your heart often that He is better than all of them.
Come home quickly. When you drift, and we all do, do not stay away out of shame. Remember the father watching the road. Turn around. He is already running toward you.
He Is Still Asking
The Bible begins with God walking in a garden, looking for the people He made.
And it ends with God dwelling with His people forever.
Everything in between is the story of a God who refused to stop looking.
He walked with Adam. He spoke to Moses as a friend. He sent prophets. He sent His Son. He stands at the door and knocks.
All of it for one reason.
He wants you.
Not just your worship.
Not just your service.
Not just your Sunday.
You.
So let me ask you the question God asked in the garden.
Where are you?
Not where you live. Not what you do. Not how busy you are.
Where is your heart in relation to Him?
Maybe you have drifted in a good season and did not even notice. Maybe you have been so busy serving Him that you forgot to sit with Him. Maybe you have been angry at Him for saying no to something you really wanted.
Wherever you are, it is not too far.
The God who walked in the garden is still walking toward you.
And the best answer you can ever give Him is the one Abraham gave, the one Moses gave, the one the prophets gave when God called their name.
The grass is green. The sun is warm. And the crowd is enormous.
Five thousand men, the Bible says, and that is before you count the women and the children. People have followed Jesus all the way out here, away from the towns, because they cannot stop listening to Him.
It is getting late. Stomachs are starting to growl. And there is not a single food stall in sight.
The disciples are doing the maths, and the maths is not good.
Then a boy steps forward with his lunch.
“Here is a boy with five small barley loaves and two small fish, but how far will they go among so many?”
John 6:9 NIV
How far will they go?
I love that question, because it is the question so many of us ask about our own lives.
How far can my little go?
How far can my small beginning go?
How far can my ordinary story, my one talent, my late start, my unfinished education, my simple background go?
Jesus takes the boy’s lunch. He gives thanks. And He starts to break it.
And He keeps breaking it.
And it keeps going.
Bread passes from hand to hand, basket to basket, family to family, until thousands of people are sitting on that hillside, full and laughing and amazed.
That is where most people stop reading.
Miracle complete. Crowd fed. Wonderful.
But Jesus was not finished.
“When they had all had enough to eat, he said to his disciples, ‘Gather the pieces that are left over. Let nothing be wasted.’”
John 6:12 NIV
Let nothing be wasted.
The miracle was over, and Jesus still cared about the crumbs.
The God who multiplies your little also gathers your leftovers.
That is what this chapter is about.
The God who does not waste anything.
Not a single piece.
The Leftovers Were Bigger Than the Lunch
Now look at what happened next.
“So they gathered them and filled twelve baskets with the pieces of the five barley loaves left over by those who had eaten.”
John 6:13 NIV
Twelve baskets.
Think about that for a moment.
They started with five small loaves.
They finished with twelve full baskets.
The leftovers were bigger than the lunch.
With God, what is left over can be bigger than what you started with.
And notice the number.
Twelve baskets.
Twelve disciples.
Every single one of them walked away from that hillside carrying a basket. A personal reminder in their own hands. A souvenir of what God can do with a little, when it is placed in His hands.
I believe God still does that.
He lets you carry something out of every season. A lesson. A skill. A testimony. A strength you did not know you had.
Something you can hold up later and say, “Look what He did with that.”
Every Detail
If there is one verse that captures the heart of this chapter, it is this one:
“And we know that in all things God works for the good of those who love him, who have been called according to his purpose.”
Romans 8:28 NIV
In all things.
Not some things. Not the good things only. Not just the parts of your story you would put on social media.
All things.
The Message puts the end of that passage beautifully:
“That’s why we can be so sure that every detail in our lives of love for God is worked into something good.”
Romans 8:28 MSG
Every detail.
The job you thought was a detour.
The city you did not plan to live in.
The years you spent learning something you never thought you would use.
The door that closed so another could open.
God takes every detail and works it in.
God is not a God of waste.
He is a God of weaving.
He takes threads you thought were random and weaves them into something you could never have designed on your own.
What Is in Your Hand?
Let me show you how God does it.
Moses spent forty years in the desert of Midian looking after sheep.
Forty years.
He had grown up in a palace. He had been educated in Egypt. And now his days were spent walking through wilderness, finding water, finding pasture, learning every path and every hill.
To anyone watching, it might have looked like a career that went nowhere.
But God was not wasting a single day.
Because one day, Moses would lead an entire nation through that very same kind of wilderness. And who better to lead millions through the desert than a man who had spent forty years learning it?
Then, at the burning bush, God asked Moses a simple question.
“Then the LORD said to him, ‘What is that in your hand?’ ‘A staff,’ he replied.”
Exodus 4:2 NIV
A staff.
An ordinary shepherd’s stick. The tool of his everyday work.
And that same staff would be lifted over the Red Sea.
God did not give Moses something new.
He used what was already in his hand.
So let me ask you the same question.
What is in your hand?
Your experience. Your personality. Your skills. The things you learned in jobs you have already left. The languages you speak. The way you talk to people. The way you notice details others miss.
You may think it is ordinary.
In God’s hands, it is a staff.
Burned Stones
There is a story in the book of Nehemiah that I absolutely love.
The walls of Jerusalem had been broken down for years. The gates had been burned. What was once a strong, proud city was now surrounded by heaps of rubble.
Nehemiah was serving as cupbearer to a king, hundreds of miles away. But when he heard about the walls, something stirred in him. He got permission, travelled to Jerusalem, and rallied the people to rebuild.
Not everyone was impressed. A man named Sanballat stood by and mocked them:
“What are those feeble Jews doing? Will they restore their wall? Will they offer sacrifices? Will they finish in a day? Can they bring the stones back to life from those heaps of rubble—burned as they are?”
Nehemiah 4:2 NIV
Burned as they are.
Sanballat looked at the rubble and saw rubbish.
God looked at the same rubble and saw a wall.
Because the people did not wait for brand new stones to arrive. They reached into the heaps and built with what was already there. The scorched stones. The ones everyone else had written off.
“So we rebuilt the wall till all of it reached half its height, for the people worked with all their heart.”
Nehemiah 4:6 NIV
And then this:
“So the wall was completed on the twenty-fifth of Elul, in fifty-two days.”
Nehemiah 6:15 NIV
Fifty two days.
Walls that had lain in ruins for years, rebuilt in less than two months, out of stones people said were finished.
What people called rubble, God called building material.
Those burned stones were not thrown away. They became part of the wall.
The parts of your story you thought were too damaged to use, God can build with them too. And when He does, people will see what the surrounding nations saw in Nehemiah’s day:
“They realized that this work had been done with the help of our God.”
Nehemiah 6:16 NIV
Every Chapter Counts
Joseph is one of the best examples in all of Scripture of a life where nothing was wasted.
He had dreams as a young man. Then his life took turn after turn he never planned. A coat. A journey to Egypt. A household. A prison. A palace.
And at every stop, Joseph was learning. Managing. Serving. Growing. Interpreting dreams. Building trust with powerful people.
When he finally stood at the top, second only to Pharaoh, every single chapter had prepared him for that moment.
Years later, standing before his brothers, Joseph summed it all up in one sentence:
“You intended to harm me, but God intended it for good to accomplish what is now being done, the saving of many lives.”
Genesis 50:20 NIV
God intended it for good.
Every chapter counted.
Paul is another one.
Before he met Jesus, Paul was one of the most educated religious scholars of his day. He knew the Scriptures inside out. He was a Roman citizen. He was a tentmaker by trade.
After he met Jesus, God used all of it.
His education helped him explain the gospel to scholars. His Roman citizenship opened doors and protected him on his journeys. His tentmaking paid his way so he could preach for free. Even his zeal, once pointed in the wrong direction, became the fire that carried the good news across the world.
God did not throw away Paul’s past.
He redeemed it and put it to work.
Nothing about who you have been is beyond God’s ability to use.
The Second Fire
Here is a detail that I find so beautiful, and so few people notice it.
On the night Jesus was arrested, Peter stood outside in the cold, warming himself by a fire. It was a hard night for Peter. A night he would have loved to forget.
“It was cold, and the servants and officials stood around a fire they had made to keep warm. Peter also was standing with them, warming himself.”
John 18:18 NIV
A few weeks later, after the resurrection, Peter is out fishing. He sees Jesus on the shore, and he jumps out of the boat and swims to Him.
And when he gets there, Jesus has made breakfast.
“When they landed, they saw a fire of burning coals there with fish on it, and some bread.”
John 21:9 NIV
Another fire.
Here is the detail. In the original Greek, John uses the same special word for both of these fires: a charcoal fire. And those two moments are the only two places that word appears in the entire New Testament.
Jesus did not avoid the memory.
He redeemed it.
He lit a new fire, and around that fire He gave Peter a fresh start. Three times He asked Peter, “Do you love me?” And three times Peter said yes. And each time, Jesus gave him a mission.
“He said, ‘Lord, you know all things; you know that I love you.’ Jesus said, ‘Feed my sheep.’”
John 21:17 NIV
Jesus did not erase Peter’s story. He rewrote the ending around a new fire.
And Peter went on to preach on the day of Pentecost, and thousands came to faith.
God can take any memory and light a new fire next to it.
Nothing I Lived Through Was Wasted
I can see this in my own story too.
I spent years in sales. Years of learning how to listen to people, how to hear no and keep going, how to stay hopeful when the numbers did not move. At the time, I thought I was just building a career.
I did not know I was also learning how to write to people’s hearts.
Remember the rejection email I told you about? The one that said, “Unfortunately”? At the time, it felt like a door slamming shut.
Today, it is part of a book that I pray will encourage people I may never meet.
God did not waste it.
He gathered it.
And this book itself, my first one, is made of seasons I once thought were just in between. The waiting. The praying. The questions. The ordinary days.
Every one of them made it into the basket.
The Years Come Back
Maybe you have looked at a stretch of your life and thought, “Those years are gone.”
Maybe you started late. Maybe you changed direction. Maybe you spent time on things that did not turn out the way you hoped.
God has a promise for you.
“I will repay you for the years the locusts have eaten.”
Joel 2:25 NIV
He will repay the years.
Not just the things. The years.
God is able to restore time in a way that only God can. He can make up in one season what you thought you lost in ten. He can open doors so fast that you look back and realise He was preparing you all along.
“He has made everything beautiful in its time.”
Ecclesiastes 3:11 NIV
Everything.
In its time.
You may not see the full picture yet. But the artist is still painting, and He has never once ruined a canvas.
You are not behind.
You are being gathered.
Gather Your Baskets
So here is what I want you to do.
Jesus told the disciples to gather the pieces. That was an action. They had to walk the hillside, pick things up, and fill their baskets.
So let us gather.
Take an inventory. Write down the skills, lessons and experiences you have picked up in every season of your life. You will be surprised how full the list gets.
Ask what is in your hand. Look at what you already have, not just what you wish you had. Moses started with a stick.
Pick up your burned stones. Name the parts of your story you thought were unusable, and hand them to God. He builds with what others call rubble.
Thank God for every chapter. Even the ones you did not choose. Gratitude turns your past into a testimony.
Offer it all back to Him. Like the boy with his lunch, place what you have in His hands. That is where little becomes enough.
Get Ready
Here is the most exciting part.
If God has wasted nothing, then everything you have lived through has been preparing you for something.
And that something is still ahead.
“Forget the former things; do not dwell on the past. See, I am doing a new thing! Now it springs up; do you not perceive it? I am making a way in the wilderness and streams in the wasteland.”
Isaiah 43:18–19 NIV
See, I am doing a new thing.
Now it springs up.
Not someday. Now.
And look at what God promises to do. Streams in the wasteland.
Water where there was none.
That is what a God who wastes nothing does. He takes the dry places and makes rivers run through them.
Paul said it like a man lacing up his running shoes:
“I’ve got my eye on the goal, where God is beckoning us onward—to Jesus. I’m off and running, and I’m not turning back.”
Philippians 3:14 MSG
I’m off and running.
That is where I want to leave you.
Not looking back with regret.
Looking forward with expectation.
Everything you have been through has been gathered. Every piece. Every season. Every lesson. Every crumb.
Nothing was lost.
Nothing was wasted.
And the God who filled twelve baskets from one boy’s lunch is not finished with your story.
Do you remember the blank page I told you about in Chapter Two?
The book that sat in the notes on my phone for so long?
Here is something I did not tell you.
Writing the first line did not suddenly make me feel ready. I did not get a sign. I did not wake up one morning with all the chapters planned out and all the fear gone.
I just started.
One sentence. Then another. Then a page.
And somewhere along the way, I realised that the confidence I had been waiting for before I started only showed up after I started.
Faith does not wait to feel ready. It takes the first step and lets God meet it there.
That is what this chapter is about.
Because there comes a point where faith has to move.
We have talked about what faith is. We have talked about breaking the limits in our minds, praising God at all times, walking with Him, and trusting that nothing is wasted.
But all of that is meant to lead somewhere.
To a step.
Faith That Moves
James says it plainly:
“In the same way, faith by itself, if it is not accompanied by action, is dead.”
James 2:17 NIV
That is a strong word.
Dead.
Not weak. Not small. Dead.
Faith that never moves is like a car with a full tank that never leaves the driveway. Everything it needs is there. It just never goes anywhere.
Belief can sit still.
Faith gets up.
Look at how the Bible describes the faith of Noah:
“By faith Noah, when warned about things not yet seen, in holy fear built an ark to save his family.”
Hebrews 11:7 NIV
Things not yet seen.
There was no rain yet. No flood. No storm clouds on the horizon. Just a word from God and a man with a hammer in his hand.
Noah did not wait for the first drop of rain to start building. If he had, it would have been too late.
His faith did not sit and wait to be proven right.
It picked up tools.
I think about how strange that must have looked. A man building an enormous boat on dry land, day after day, year after year, while the people around him watched and wondered what he was doing.
That is often what the first step of faith looks like from the outside.
A little strange. A little early. A little hard to explain.
But it is never wasted, because it is built on what God said, not on what anyone can see.
The Feet Went First
Let me show you one of my favourite moments in the Old Testament.
After forty years in the wilderness, Israel finally reaches the edge of the Promised Land. There is just one problem.
The Jordan River is in the way.
And it is not a calm, shallow stream. It is harvest season, and the river is overflowing its banks.
God gives Joshua the instructions. The priests carrying the ark of the covenant are to walk to the edge of the river, and step in.
Not wait for the river to part.
Step in.
And here is what happened:
“And as they that bare the ark were come unto Jordan, and the feet of the priests that bare the ark were dipped in the brim of the water, (for Jordan overfloweth all his banks all the time of harvest,) That the waters which came down from above stood and rose up upon an heap very far from the city Adam.”
Joshua 3:15–16 KJV
Did you catch it?
The feet were dipped in the brim of the water.
Then the waters stood.
The river did not stop so they could step in.
It stopped because they stepped in.
God did not part the river until their feet were wet.
And notice one more detail.
The water stopped “very far” upstream, at a city called Adam. Miles away. Completely out of sight.
The priests could not see what God was doing. All they knew was that their feet were in the water.
But the moment they obeyed, God was already working somewhere they could not see.
Your first step works the same way.
You may not see anything change right away. But the moment you obey, God is already moving upstream.
Because You Say So
Peter learned this lesson on an ordinary morning.
He and his partners had fished all night and caught nothing. They were tired. They were washing their nets. They were done.
Then Jesus told Peter to push out into deep water and let the nets down again.
Peter was a professional fisherman. Jesus was a carpenter. On paper, Peter knew better.
But listen to his answer:
“Master, we’ve worked hard all night and haven’t caught anything. But because you say so, I will let down the nets.”
Luke 5:5 NIV
Because You say so.
That is faith in five words.
Not because it makes sense. Not because I feel like it. Not because last night went well.
Because You say so.
“When they had done so, they caught such a large number of fish that their nets began to break.”
Luke 5:6 NIV
The breakthrough was on the other side of “because You say so.”
Healed on the Way
There is a quiet detail in the story of the ten lepers that I love.
When they called out to Jesus for mercy, He did not touch them. He did not pray over them. He simply gave them an instruction.
“When he saw them, he said, ‘Go, show yourselves to the priests.’ And as they went, they were cleansed.”
Luke 17:14 NIV
As they went.
They were still sick when they started walking.
They were going to show the priests a healing that had not happened yet.
And somewhere on the road, it happened.
Some miracles are not waiting at the destination. They are waiting on the way.
Sometimes God will not show you the answer before you move. He shows it while you are moving.
Through the Crowd
There is a woman in the Gospels whose name we never learn, but whose step of faith has been talked about for two thousand years.
For twelve years, she had been sick. She had spent everything she had on doctors, and instead of getting better, she grew worse. On top of that, her condition made her an outsider. She was not supposed to be in crowds. She was not supposed to touch anyone.
But she heard that Jesus was passing through.
“When she heard about Jesus, she came up behind him in the crowd and touched his cloak, because she thought, ‘If I just touch his clothes, I will be healed.’”
Mark 5:27–28 NIV
Think about what that step required.
She had to leave her house. She had to walk into a crowd she was not supposed to be in. She had to push past people, bend down low, and reach out her hand.
No one invited her. No one cleared a path for her. She just moved.
And the moment she touched Him, she was healed.
Jesus stopped. He turned around. He wanted to know who had touched Him. And when she came forward, trembling, He did not scold her.
“He said to her, ‘Daughter, your faith has healed you. Go in peace and be freed from your suffering.’”
Mark 5:34 NIV
Daughter.
She came as an outsider. She left as family.
And Jesus did not say, “My power has healed you,” though it was His power that did it. He said, “Your faith has healed you.”
Her faith was the hand that reached out.
Sometimes your first step will not be a grand leap. It will be a reach. A small, brave movement toward Jesus through a crowd of reasons not to.
That reach matters more than you know.
Too Simple to Obey
Not every first step is dramatic. Sometimes the hardest step is the simple one.
Naaman was a powerful army commander with a skin disease. He travelled to Israel to see the prophet Elisha, expecting something impressive. Instead, Elisha did not even come out to meet him. He just sent a message: go and wash seven times in the Jordan.
Naaman was offended. He almost went home.
But his servants said something wise:
“My father, if the prophet had bid thee do some great thing, wouldest thou not have done it? how much rather then, when he saith to thee, Wash, and be clean?”
2 Kings 5:13 KJV
If God had asked for something big, you would have done it.
So why not do the simple thing?
“Then went he down, and dipped himself seven times in Jordan, according to the saying of the man of God: and his flesh came again like unto the flesh of a little child, and he was clean.”
2 Kings 5:14 KJV
Sometimes the first step God is asking for is not a leap.
It is a phone call. An apology. A prayer. An application. A conversation. A yes.
Small, simple, and easy to ignore.
But obedience is never small to God.
The First Post
I remember the first time I shared something I had written about God.
For a long time, I had been writing short devotionals for myself. A few thoughts on a verse. A lesson God was teaching me. Something I wanted to remember. They lived quietly in my notes, where no one else could see them.
Then I started feeling a nudge to share one.
I resisted it for weeks.
What if people think I am trying to sound holy? What if nobody reads it? What if somebody who knows my past rolls their eyes?
One evening, I finally typed it out, read it over far too many times, and pressed post before I could change my mind. Then I put my phone face down and tried not to think about it.
The next morning, I had a message from someone I had not spoken to in a long time.
They said they had been going through a hard week, and that the words I shared were exactly what they needed to hear that night.
I sat there and read that message again and again.
That person was on the other side of a step I almost did not take.
Your first step might be someone else’s answer.
That is the thing about obedience. It is rarely just about you. When you step out, God often uses that step to reach someone you cannot even see yet.
Light for One Step
One reason we struggle to take the first step is that we want to see the whole path before we start.
God rarely works like that.
“Your word is a lamp for my feet, a light on my path.”
Psalm 119:105 NIV
A lamp for my feet.
Not a floodlight for the whole road. A lamp. Enough light for the next step.
In Bible times, a lamp would only light up a few feet ahead. You could not see the end of the road. You could only see where to put your foot next.
And that was enough.
Because every time you take a step, the light moves with you.
God will not always show you the whole staircase.
But He will always light the next step.
What If I Get It Wrong?
There is a fear that keeps a lot of us standing on the shore.
What if I step out and get it wrong?
What if I misheard God? What if I fail? What if people laugh?
Let me tell you something that has brought me a lot of peace.
God is very good at steering people who are already moving.
Look at Paul. On one of his missionary journeys, he and his team tried to go into the province of Asia to preach. The Holy Spirit stopped them. So they tried to go to Bithynia instead. Again, the door closed. Then one night, Paul had a vision of a man from Macedonia begging him to come and help. And Paul went, and the gospel entered Europe for the first time.
Paul did not get every direction right on the first try.
But he was moving. And God redirected him.
It is much easier to steer a car that is rolling than one that is parked.
And Paul wrote these words to a young man named Timothy, who seems to have struggled with fear:
“For the Spirit God gave us does not make us timid, but gives us power, love and self-discipline.”
2 Timothy 1:7 NIV
Timidity does not come from God.
Power does. Love does. A steady, disciplined mind does.
So if you step out and need correcting, God will correct you. If you take a wrong turn, God can turn you around.
But He cannot steer you if you never leave the driveway.
Do Not Despise Small Beginnings
Maybe your first step feels too small to matter.
One page. One prayer. One conversation. One new habit. One Sunday back in church.
God has a word for you:
“Who dares despise the day of small things.”
Zechariah 4:10 NIV
Small beginnings are not a sign that God is not in it.
They are often the sign that He is.
The river parted for wet feet. The nets filled for one more cast. The lepers were healed on an ordinary road.
Every one of those miracles started with a step that looked small at the time.
When Prayer Becomes Motion
There is a moment in the story of the Exodus that surprises a lot of people.
Israel has just left Egypt. Behind them, Pharaoh’s army is closing in. In front of them is the Red Sea. They are trapped. The people are terrified, and Moses cries out to God.
And God answers him with this:
“Then the LORD said to Moses, ‘Why are you crying out to me? Tell the Israelites to move on.’”
Exodus 14:15 NIV
Why are you crying out to Me?
Move on.
God was not against Moses praying. Moses prayed constantly. But in that moment, the time for asking had passed. God had already given the instruction. Now it was time to move.
There are seasons when we keep praying about something God has already answered. We ask for confirmation, and then confirmation of the confirmation. We wait for one more sign.
And sometimes heaven is gently saying, “I have already told you. Now go.”
Prayer is never wasted. But there comes a moment when the most faithful prayer you can pray is the one you pray with your feet.
Take It
So let me ask you.
What is the first step God has been putting on your heart?
You do not need to see the whole path. You do not need to feel fearless. You do not need everything figured out.
You just need to take the next step He is showing you.
Name the step. Write it down. Be specific. Not “someday” but “this week.”
Make it small enough to start. If the whole thing feels overwhelming, find the first piece. Then do that.
Lean on His word. When doubt shows up, say “because You say so,” and let that be your reason.
Expect God to move upstream. You may not see it yet, but your obedience starts things in motion far beyond what you can see.
Keep walking. Some answers only show up on the way.
The priests did not get to watch the river part from the shore.
They had to step in first.
And so do we.
Faith is not a feeling you wait for. It is a step you take.
I used to think waiting was the space between faith and the answer.
You pray. You believe. And then you wait, hands in your lap, until God finally shows up.
But somewhere along the way, I realised I had it backwards.
Waiting is not the gap in your faith.
Waiting is where your faith grows up.
Think about the seasons in your own life when you were waiting on God. Waiting for a door to open. Waiting for a prayer to be answered. Waiting for clarity, for healing, for a breakthrough, for a “yes.”
Those seasons probably did not feel spiritual. They probably felt slow. Quiet. Maybe even forgotten.
But I have come to believe that some of the most important work God ever does in us happens in exactly those seasons.
Waiting is not the gap in your faith. It is where your faith grows roots.
The Inbox
Let me tell you about one of my own waiting seasons.
There was a stretch of time, during the job search I told you about in Chapter Three, when my phone became the centre of my day.
I would wake up and check my email before I had even prayed. I would refresh my inbox in the middle of conversations. Every time my phone buzzed, my heart jumped, and then sank when it was just another newsletter.
I was waiting. But I was not waiting in faith.
I was waiting in anxiety.
And one evening, after refreshing my inbox for what must have been the twentieth time that day, I felt the Holy Spirit gently ask me a question.
Who are you really waiting on?
It stopped me.
Because the honest answer was that I was waiting on an email. On a recruiter. On a hiring manager. On a decision someone else would make.
I had forgotten that I was really waiting on God.
So I made a small change. Every time I felt the urge to refresh my inbox, I would pray instead. Just a short prayer. “Lord, I trust You with this. You know where I am going.”
My circumstances did not change overnight.
But my waiting did.
The anxiety loosened its grip. The days felt less heavy. I was still waiting, but now I was waiting with someone.
Anxious waiting watches the inbox. Faithful waiting watches the Lord.
It Will Certainly Come
The prophet Habakkuk was waiting too.
He looked at the world around him, at the injustice, the confusion, the silence, and he asked God how long it would take. And God gave him an answer that has carried believers for thousands of years:
“For the revelation awaits an appointed time; it speaks of the end and will not prove false. Though it linger, wait for it; it will certainly come and will not delay.”
Habakkuk 2:3 NIV
Look at the two promises side by side.
“Though it linger.”
“It will certainly come.”
God does not pretend the wait will be short. He admits it may linger.
But He also promises that the lingering is not the end of the story.
It is appointed. It is certain. It is coming.
And notice the last phrase: “and will not delay.”
How can something linger and not delay at the same time?
Because from where we stand, it feels slow. But from where God stands, it is right on time.
It may linger on your calendar. It is never late on His.
The Man Who Waited His Whole Life
There is a man in the Gospel of Luke who barely gets a few verses, but his story is one of the most beautiful pictures of faithful waiting in the whole Bible.
His name was Simeon.
“It had been revealed to him by the Holy Spirit that he would not die before he had seen the Lord’s Messiah.”
Luke 2:26 NIV
Think about what that means.
Simeon received a promise and then had to keep living. Day after day. Year after year. Getting older. Watching people come and go from the temple.
Still waiting.
And then one ordinary day, a young couple walked in carrying a baby.
“Simeon took him in his arms and praised God, saying: ‘Sovereign Lord, as you have promised, you may now dismiss your servant in peace. For my eyes have seen your salvation.’”
Luke 2:28–30 NIV
As you have promised.
God kept His word.
It took a lifetime. But Simeon did not miss it, because he never stopped showing up.
He was in the temple, ready, on the day the promise walked through the door.
Faith does not just wait for the promise. It stays in position for it.
Even Jesus Waited
Here is something about Jesus that I think we often overlook.
“Now Jesus himself was about thirty years old when he began his ministry.”
Luke 3:23 NIV
About thirty years old.
Think about that. The Son of God, the One who came to save the world, spent around thirty years in relative obscurity before His public ministry even began. He grew up in a small town. He worked with His hands. He learned. He waited.
And then His public ministry lasted about three years.
Thirty years of preparation for three years of purpose.
If Jesus did not consider those years wasted, neither should you.
David had a similar story. He was anointed as king while he was still a young shepherd. But he did not take the throne the next day.
“David was thirty years old when he became king, and he reigned forty years.”
2 Samuel 5:4 NIV
Between the anointing and the crown, there were years. Years of serving in Saul’s court. Years of running and hiding in caves. Years of leading a ragged group of outcasts in the wilderness.
The promise was real the day Samuel poured the oil.
But it was being prepared in him for years before it was revealed to everyone else.
Your season of waiting may be doing the same thing. Preparing you to carry what God has already promised.
Hannah Kept Coming Back
Hannah’s story is another one.
She wanted a child more than anything. And year after year, she went to the house of God, prayed, and went home with the same empty arms.
She was mocked. She was misunderstood. At one point, the priest even thought she was drunk because she was praying so intensely.
But she kept coming back.
And the Bible says this, so simply that it is easy to miss the years inside it:
“So in the course of time Hannah became pregnant and gave birth to a son. She named him Samuel.”
1 Samuel 1:20 NIV
In the course of time.
Not instantly. Not on her schedule.
But it came.
And the son she waited for became one of the greatest prophets Israel ever had.
The length of her wait was not a sign that God had said no. It was part of preparing something that was bigger than what she had asked for.
A Cloud the Size of a Hand
After three and a half years without rain, the prophet Elijah climbed to the top of Mount Carmel to pray for it.
He prayed, and sent his servant to look out toward the sea.
Nothing.
He prayed again.
Nothing.
Six times, the servant came back with the same report.
There is nothing there.
Then came the seventh time.
“The seventh time the servant reported, ‘A cloud as small as a man’s hand is rising from the sea.’”
1 Kings 18:44 NIV
A cloud as small as a hand.
That is all.
But Elijah did not say, “That’s it?” He told everyone to get ready, because heavy rain was coming.
And it did.
Here is what I love about this. Elijah knew how to read a small sign. He did not need the whole storm to show up before he believed it was coming.
Sometimes, in your waiting, God will give you a small cloud. A conversation. A door cracking open. A peace you cannot explain.
Do not despise it.
It might be the first sign of the rain.
Wait for the Gift
Before Jesus returned to heaven, He gave His disciples a very specific instruction.
“Do not leave Jerusalem, but wait for the gift my Father promised, which you have heard me speak about.”
Acts 1:4 NIV
Wait.
They had just seen the risen Jesus. They had been commissioned to take the gospel to the whole world. Everything in them must have wanted to go.
But Jesus told them to wait first.
And He told them why:
“But you will receive power when the Holy Spirit comes on you; and you will be my witnesses in Jerusalem, and in all Judea and Samaria, and to the ends of the earth.”
Acts 1:8 NIV
The waiting was not delay.
It was preparation for power.
About a hundred and twenty of them gathered in an upper room and prayed. Ten days later, on the day of Pentecost, the Holy Spirit came. Peter stood up and preached, and about three thousand people believed in a single day.
What happened in that one day could never have happened without the ten days before it.
Some waiting is not delay. It is God loading you with power.
Faith and Patience
The book of Hebrews puts faith and patience side by side:
“We do not want you to become lazy, but to imitate those who through faith and patience inherit what has been promised.”
Hebrews 6:12 NIV
Faith and patience.
Faith believes the promise.
Patience stays with it until it arrives.
You need both. Faith without patience gives up too early. Patience without faith just waits for nothing.
James uses the picture of a farmer:
“See how the farmer waits for the land to yield its valuable crop, patiently waiting for the autumn and spring rains.”
James 5:7 NIV
A farmer does not plant a seed on Monday and dig it up on Wednesday to check if it worked. He waters it. He protects it. He trusts the process that he cannot see under the soil.
Waiting in faith is not doing nothing.
It is tending what God has planted.
Waiting Is Not Worrying
There is a difference between waiting and worrying, even though they can feel the same.
Worrying keeps replaying the problem.
Waiting keeps returning to the promise.
Paul gave us a beautiful way to wait well:
“Do not be anxious about anything, but in every situation, by prayer and petition, with thanksgiving, present your requests to God.”
Philippians 4:6 NIV
Prayer. Petition. Thanksgiving.
Not anxiety.
And David wrote about what happened when he waited this way:
“I waited patiently for the LORD; he turned to me and heard my cry. He lifted me out of the slimy pit, out of the mud and mire; he set my feet on a rock and gave me a firm place to stand. He put a new song in my mouth, a hymn of praise to our God.”
Psalm 40:1–3 NIV
Look at the order.
He waited.
God turned to him.
God heard him.
God lifted him.
God set his feet on a rock.
God gave him a new song.
The waiting came first. Everything else followed.
What to Do While You Wait
So how do we wait well?
Here are a few things that have helped me.
Keep showing up. Like Simeon in the temple and Hannah at the house of God, stay in the place where God has met you before.
Keep praying, even when it feels repetitive. Elijah prayed seven times. Persistence is not a lack of faith. It is faith refusing to quit.
Watch for small clouds. Notice the small signs of God’s movement, and thank Him for them.
Keep doing good. “Let us not become weary in doing good, for at the proper time we will reap a harvest if we do not give up.” (Galatians 6:9)
Let God strengthen you now. Not just after the waiting, but in the middle of it.
That last one matters more than we realise.
“But those who hope in the LORD will renew their strength. They will soar on wings like eagles; they will run and not grow weary, they will walk and not be faint.”
Isaiah 40:31 NIV
The strength does not come after the wait.
It comes in it.
The Laughter at the End
I want to end this chapter with a smile, because waiting does not always end in tears.
Sometimes it ends in laughter.
Sarah waited decades for a child. When God finally told Abraham that she would have a son within the year, Sarah was listening from inside the tent. She was well past the age of having children. And she laughed. Not a joyful laugh. A tired, it is too late for that kind of laugh.
But God kept His word.
A year later, Sarah was holding her son. And they named him Isaac, a name that means “he laughs.”
Listen to what Sarah said:
“Sarah said, ‘God has brought me laughter, and everyone who hears about this will laugh with me.’”
Genesis 21:6 NIV
The same woman who laughed in disbelief was now laughing in joy.
God took the very sound of her doubt and turned it into the sound of her celebration.
He can do the same with your waiting.
The season that once made you sigh might one day make you laugh. And the people around you will laugh with you, because they will see what God did.
It Is Coming
Wherever you are waiting right now, I want to say this to you as clearly as I can.
Your waiting is not wasted.
Your prayers have not been lost.
Your season has not been forgotten.
God is not late. God is not distracted. God is not done.
Though it linger, wait for it.
It will certainly come.
“Wait for the LORD; be strong and take heart and wait for the LORD.”
Psalm 27:14 NIV
Be strong.
Take heart.
And wait, not like someone who has given up, but like someone who knows that the One who promised is faithful.
We found out it is more than belief. It is putting your whole weight on God.
We learned that the biggest limits are often the sentences in our own minds. That praise is the sound faith makes. That God is not just looking for worship, He is looking for us. That nothing in our story is wasted. That faith takes the first step. And that faith knows how to wait.
Now we come to the last question.
How do you keep it?
Not for a day. Not for a good season. For a lifetime.
The Last Words of Paul
When Paul wrote his final letter, he was in prison in Rome. He knew his life was nearly over. He had been beaten, shipwrecked, betrayed, misunderstood and abandoned by people he trusted.
If anyone had reasons to let go of faith, it was Paul.
And this is what he wrote:
“I have fought the good fight, I have finished the race, I have kept the faith.”
2 Timothy 4:7 NIV
Three phrases.
I have fought.
I have finished.
I have kept.
Paul did not say, “I never struggled.” He said he fought.
He did not say, “It was easy.” He said he finished.
And he did not say, “I always felt strong.” He said he kept the faith.
Paul did not say he never struggled. He said he never let go.
That is the goal.
Not a perfect life. A faithful one.
Faith Is a Race, Not a Moment
There is a reason the Bible so often describes faith as a race.
A race is not won at the starting line. It is not won by the person who sprints the first hundred metres and then sits down.
It is won by the one who keeps going.
“Therefore, since we are surrounded by such a great cloud of witnesses, let us throw off everything that hinders and the sin that so easily entangles. And let us run with perseverance the race marked out for us, fixing our eyes on Jesus, the pioneer and perfecter of faith.”
Hebrews 12:1–2 NIV
A great cloud of witnesses.
That is the chapter right before it: Hebrews 11, the great list of people who lived by faith. Abraham, Moses, Rahab, Gideon, David, and many more.
They have already run their race.
And now it is our turn.
Notice what we are told to do.
Throw off what hinders. Run with perseverance. Fix our eyes on Jesus.
Not on the crowd. Not on the runner beside us. Not on how far we still have to go.
On Jesus.
By Faith
Hebrews 11 is sometimes called the Hall of Faith. Read it slowly, and you will notice that almost every story begins with the same two words.
By faith.
By faith Abel offered a better sacrifice.
By faith Enoch walked with God.
By faith Noah built an ark.
By faith Abraham went, even though he did not know where he was going.
By faith Sarah, past childbearing age, received the promise.
By faith Moses left Egypt, not fearing the king’s anger.
By faith the people passed through the Red Sea as on dry land.
By faith the walls of Jericho fell.
By faith Rahab, an outsider, was welcomed among God’s people.
And then the writer says, in effect, “I do not have time to tell you about Gideon, Barak, Samson, Jephthah, David, Samuel and the prophets.”
Here is what strikes me about that list.
These were not perfect people. Abraham lied about his wife. Sarah laughed at God’s promise. Moses killed a man. Gideon hid in a winepress. Samson made terrible choices. David failed badly.
Yet they are remembered by two words.
By faith.
Not by their mistakes. Not by their worst moments.
By their faith.
God does not remember you by your failures. He remembers you by your faith.
One day, the story of your life will be told too. I pray that the two words written over it will be the same.
By faith.
He Started It, He Will Finish It
Here is the part that takes the pressure off.
Jesus is called “the pioneer and perfecter of faith.”
The pioneer is the one who starts something.
The perfecter is the one who completes it.
Your faith did not start with you. And it does not depend on you alone to finish.
Paul said it like this to the church in Philippi:
“Being confident of this, that he who began a good work in you will carry it on to completion until the day of Christ Jesus.”
Philippians 1:6 NIV
He who began it will complete it.
You are not holding on to God by yourself. He is holding on to you.
Keeping the faith is not about gripping so hard that you never slip.
It is about staying close to the One who never lets go.
When Faith Feels Weak
There will be days when your faith feels small.
Days when prayer feels like talking to the ceiling. When the waiting drags on. When you wonder if you heard God right at all.
Jesus knew those days would come.
On the night before the cross, He told Peter something remarkable. Peter was about to fail badly. Jesus knew it. And instead of rejecting him, He said this:
“But I have prayed for you, Simon, that your faith may not fail.”
Luke 22:32 NIV
Jesus prayed for Peter’s faith.
And Hebrews tells us He is still praying for us today.
So on the days when your faith feels weak, remember this. The strength of your faith does not rest only on how strong you feel.
It rests on the One who is praying for you.
Even If He Does Not
There is a kind of faith that I believe is the deepest of all.
It is the faith of three young men named Shadrach, Meshach and Abednego.
The king of Babylon had set up a giant golden statue and commanded everyone to bow down to it. Anyone who refused would be thrown into a blazing furnace. These three refused.
Standing before the king, with the furnace roaring behind them, they said this:
“If we are thrown into the blazing furnace, the God we serve is able to deliver us from it, and he will deliver us from Your Majesty’s hand. But even if he does not, we want you to know, Your Majesty, that we will not serve your gods or worship the image of gold you have set up.”
Daniel 3:17–18 NIV
Even if He does not.
Those four words are the heart of keeping the faith.
They believed God could save them. They believed He would. But their faith did not depend on it.
Whether God rescued them from the fire or not, they had already decided who they belonged to.
Job said something similar in the middle of his suffering:
“Though he slay me, yet will I trust in him.”
Job 13:15 KJV
This is not a faith that only holds on when things go our way.
It is a faith that holds on, period.
And here is the beautiful part of the story. God did deliver Shadrach, Meshach and Abednego. When the king looked into the furnace, he saw not three men but four, walking around unbound and unharmed. And the fourth looked like a son of the gods.
They did not avoid the fire.
But they did not walk through it alone.
Keeping the faith does not mean you will never face the fire. It means that when you do, you will find Someone in there with you.
Faith That Outlives You
There is one more thing about faith I want to leave with you.
Faith is not only something you keep.
It is something you pass on.
Paul once wrote to a young man named Timothy:
“I am reminded of your sincere faith, which first lived in your grandmother Lois and in your mother Eunice and, I am persuaded, now lives in you also.”
2 Timothy 1:5 NIV
A grandmother.
A mother.
A son.
Faith passed from one generation to the next.
When I read that verse, I think about my own mother. About her words to me on the day I got that rejection email. “Your first reaction should be praise.” She did not just tell me what to believe. She showed me how to live it.
Somebody’s faith is going to be shaped by yours.
A child. A friend. A coworker. Someone who reads your life before they ever read the Bible.
Hebrews 11 says something about those great heroes of faith that always moves me:
“All these people were still living by faith when they died. They did not receive the things promised; they only saw them and welcomed them from a distance.”
Hebrews 11:13 NIV
Still living by faith.
Right to the end.
Keep the faith, and one day your faith will keep someone else.
Stones to Remember
Do you remember the river from Chapter Six? The Jordan that stopped when the priests stepped in?
There is a part of that story we did not talk about.
After all of Israel had crossed over on dry ground, God told Joshua to have twelve men go back into the riverbed and each pick up a stone. They carried those stones to the place where they camped and stacked them into a memorial.
Why?
“In the future, when your children ask you, ‘What do these stones mean?’ tell them that the flow of the Jordan was cut off before the ark of the covenant of the LORD.”
Joshua 4:6–7 NIV
The stones were for remembering.
God knew that one day, there would be another challenge. Another season of waiting. Another moment when faith felt weak. And He wanted His people to have something they could point to and say, “Remember what God did here.”
I want to encourage you to collect your own stones.
Write down the prayers God has answered. Keep a journal of the times He came through. Tell your children, your friends, your church, what He has done.
Because keeping the faith is so much easier when you can see the stones.
Writing the Last Chapter
I want to tell you something personal.
As I write these last pages, I am thinking about where this book began. A few lines in the notes on my phone. A voice asking, “Who are you to write a book?” A blank page I was afraid to start.
And now here we are, at the final chapter.
This book is one of my stones.
Every chapter in it represents something God has taught me. The difference between belief and trust. The sentences I had to stop agreeing with. The day my mom told me to make praise my first reaction. The Sunday I realised I had drifted in a good season. The years I thought were wasted that God had been gathering all along. The first step I almost did not take. The waiting that grew roots in me.
I did not write this book because I have finished my race.
I wrote it because I am still running. And I wanted you to know you are not running alone.
Before You Go
So here is my encouragement to you as we close this book.
Keep showing up. On the good days and the hard days. Faith grows in the ordinary moments.
Keep your eyes on Jesus. Not on the waves, not on the crowd, not on how far you still have to go.
Keep good people close. Stay near those who strengthen your faith, and become that person for someone else.
Keep coming back. When you drift, and we all do, do not stay away. The Father is always watching the road.
Keep the end in mind. One day, you will want to be able to say what Paul said: I kept the faith.
Well Done
Jesus told a story about a master who gave his servants something to look after while he was away. When he came back, he called them in one by one.
To the servant who had been faithful, he said this:
“His master replied, ‘Well done, good and faithful servant! You have been faithful with a few things; I will put you in charge of many things. Come and share your master’s happiness!’”
Matthew 25:21 NIV
Well done.
Not “well planned.” Not “well known.” Not “well liked.”
Well done, good and faithful.
That is what I want to hear one day. And I believe it is what you want to hear too.
Jesus also gave a promise to a church that was facing hard times:
“Be faithful, even to the point of death, and I will give you life as your victor’s crown.”
Revelation 2:10 NIV
Faithfulness is not glamorous. Most of it happens in ordinary days that no one else sees. Showing up. Praying again. Trusting again. Choosing God again.
But heaven sees every one of those days.
And one day, it will all be worth it.
The race is long. The finish line is worth it.
Beyond the Waters
When I started writing this book, I did not have everything figured out. I still do not.
But I know this.
The God who met me in the waiting, in the rejection, in the questions, and in the quiet has never once let go of me.
And He will not let go of you.
Whatever water is in front of you right now, a decision, a delay, a disappointment, a dream, it is not bigger than Him.
You can trust Him in it.
You can step through it.
You can keep the faith beyond it.
I will leave you with one of the oldest blessings in Scripture, the words God Himself gave the priests to speak over His people:
“The LORD bless you and keep you; the LORD make his face shine on you and be gracious to you; the LORD turn his face toward you and give you peace.”
